Who else plans on not having children?.

Because you are not asking them if they want to be born or not, you are forcing them to be born because you want kids...

Cats=children.

Cats=children.

It's called discussion. Not sure why you think I'm worried about things that have nothing to do with me.

So why are you dating a ching ching chong chinese?.

First of all I couldn't give a monkey's that this planet is "overpopulated" or "dying"...

Well you're in a thread started with the purpose of people who don't want kids to talk about that questioning the decision and choices those people have made.

The thread title isn't do you want kids?" It's "who else doesn't ". If you want kids why open the thread? If you aren't concerned about other people's choices why question them like you believe they have made the wrong choice?

It's rude at best.

Same here. But not 2 just 1. I don't want to plague someone with a sibling.

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You've been on TSR for a long time so I'm surprised at your poor attitude.

Just because the thread has a title I do not relate to, does/should that exclude me from being able to participate? I have not disagreed/challenged/disrespected anybody in this thread, all I have done is queried.

I never said or even implied that lady has made a poor choice, what have I said that gave you that impression?

Rude at best?

Grow up.

At any age?

I’m sure hubbie will take care of the money regardless

”Seen and not heard” isn’t impossible to implement

Plenty of mums have bods to die for fam

The two aren’t mutually exclusive, although granted it’s quite tricky to juggle. Flipside is, if you find success in your career then it may not be till you reach your 30’s/40’s before you’re able to put things into a holding pattern and start a family – at which point it becomes risky/arguably unethical even to attempt it

You could adopt Plus I wouldn’t be surprised if some hypermobility syndromes relate significantly to environmental factors e.g. what I’ve been discovering about what’s plausibly been disrupting my own health. My sprogs won’t be exposed to the same crap I was, I’ma make sure of that!

But they're constantly so noisy and always get under your feet. They're expensive and overly needy too. I'd rather adopt a child who was past the clingy stage so they can look after themselves more

If everyone thought that way then the human race will end lol! And once kids are much older they become more independent so you will rarely get the chance to feel what it is like to raise a child and the adopted child will never see you as their real parents.

It's rude and disrespectful to suggest ways of someone having a child when they've explicitly stated they don't want them


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I didn't suggest a way for you to have children. My reply to you wasn't a suggestion that you should adopt.

You've stated you don't want to pass down 'bad genes'. There are disabled people or people with mental health conditions that do want children. My reply was basically saying just because you have conditions, that doesn't necessarily mean you can't be a good and loving parent.

Again, I'll re-write this so it's clear.

I am not/was not suggesting a way for you to have children. That's none of my business.

So don't date ching ching chongs...