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    Okay, i promise i am not trolling, i am absolutely gob-smacked at this. It's the most stupid thing i have ever heard and i would absolutely not believe her if it was not for her being covered in piss like she has sat in a small puddle. Basically my girlfriend had her first driving lesson today, a 2 hour lesson, not going to name the driving school but it is an extremely popular one in the UK. Her driving instructor on the phone from the very start has been extremely 'over-friendly' calling her babe, saying he would do anything for her etc. They had never met face to face at this time, just putting it on record that my girlfriend has a high-pitched voice and sounds very young, so this was immediately strange to the both of us (I was present when she was talking to him). Just gonna cut to the main story, you will see why that was worth mentioning further down. This story is from her perspective now, anything i say is from her or other parties involved, i wasn't present. When my girlfriend got picked up from her home (literally 3 hours ago) she said it immediately absolutely stunk of urine (Not to the instructor, to me when she was telling the story), and the first thing the driving instructor said was 'I spilt a bottle of water, i spilt a bottle of water'. My girlfriend gave him a funny look and the lesson continued, they drove to a secluded location as it was her first lesson and first time ever attempting to drive a car. I'm assuming they then went through the theory side, explanations etc of how to operate the car like you do on your first lesson. My girlfriend said when she sat into the drivers seat she felt damp and it stunk of p**s the entire time she was driving, halfway through the lesson the instructor mentioned that he was diabetic, got my girlfriend to stop and got out of the car and had a p**s in a bush (On a road apparently!). From here the lesson went from disgusting to even worse as apparently he kept swearing, referring to her as 'babe'. Saying things like "You like the middle of the road, don't you?". All sort's of sexual innuendo's, he also kept saying to her to 'Not report this to your mother' (He was foreign as well, not sure of the ethnicity, she didn't say, but it is irrelevant). When she finished the lesson back at her home her parents immediately noticed she stunk of urine, she had a horrible wet patch on her jeans, not a small one either (Which i have got her to take a picture of). Her mum has smelt the jeans and confirmed that it is, in-fact, urine. She is now in the shower and is considering throwing away her jeans, knickers and the new Hollister jacket she just bought weeks ago when we went to London. I promise this is not a joke, i am not trolling in any way. My girlfriend just got out the shower as i'm writing this and said that her mum said that the patch has gone yellow?!?. Just in case you are wondering why she didn't say anything, she has anxiety so was extremely scared, she was up most of last night panicking about the driving lesson as she cant help it. I really need advice, preferably legal advice or something. She literally sat in p**s for 2 hours and it's completely unacceptable, help me guys??

    I don't have a clue what forum this should be in so i have also posted it in Law
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    Nothing illegal about losing bladder control in a car. It happens.
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    Ummmm. Enough internet for today I think. :getmecoat:
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    Hopefully you said you're not a troll OP. :lol:
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    bad driving maybe... too much drink?
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    (Original post by Cold 187um)
    Nothing illegal about losing bladder control in a car. It happens.
    What about misleading someone into sitting in it for two hours? I know it sounds hilarious but i'm actually looking for advice on what to do.
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    Well first of all she needs to get a new driving instructor...
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    That's her stupidity!! no offence to her,but why on earth would you sit down for 2 hours in a car reeking of piss for a driving lesson THAT YOU PAID FOR and do nothing about it!!
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    (Original post by Whatdoido??)
    What about misleading someone into sitting in it for two hours? I know it sounds hilarious but i'm actually looking for advice on what to do.
    Some people like that. Some people would be willing to pay for that privilege. It's just urine, it's harmless. If she's finding the driving lessons useful, she can carry on. If he's a bad instructor, she can fire him.
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    (Original post by Cpj16)
    That's her stupidity!! no offence to her,but why on earth would you sit down for 2 hours in a car for a driving lesson THAT YOU PAID FOR and do nothing about it!!
    This.

    Something doesn't quite add up. brb paying £20 to sit in someone's urine for an hour, wtf??
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    DUDE report that driver!!!,tell everyone about what a lowlife he is! NAME AND SHAME!!!
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    (Original post by Silver Arrow)
    This.

    Something doesn't quite add up. brb paying £20 to sit in someone's urine for an hour, wtf??
    She has anxiety disorder (Actually diagnosed, not self-diagnosed, takes medication, seen multiple psychiatrists etc). It is so bad that she obviously finds it easier to sit in p**s for 2 hours rather than say something. if you don't know anyone closely with anxiety or have either experienced it in the past you wouldn't understand.

    I'm not looking for people to call bull**** on what i'm saying. But rather how best to proceed with what has happened. If you don't have anything helpful to say then your opinion on whether it's real or not isn't actually needed.
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    (Original post by Cpj16)
    DUDE report that driver!!!,tell everyone about what a lowlife he is! NAME AND SHAME!!!
    Her mum has put a formal complaint in. She will obviously be getting the 2 hours refunded (Around £50 i think) but i don't think it should end there.
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    (Original post by Whatdoido??)
    Her mum has put a formal complaint in. She will obviously be getting the 2 hours refunded (Around £50 i think) but i don't think it should end there.
    I think that's the best way forward, not even just for wetting himself but those are extremely inappropriate comments as well, hope you get it sorted
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    (Original post by Blondie987)
    I think that's the best way forward, not even just for wetting himself but those are extremely inappropriate comments as well, hope you get it sorted
    Thank you! I'm going to keep the post updated as it unfolds. Can i name the driving school and instructor or would that be against the forum rules or a law or something?
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    (Original post by Whatdoido??)
    Thank you! I'm going to keep the post updated as it unfolds. Can i name the driving school and instructor or would that be against the forum rules or a law or something?
    I honestly don't know the law tbh, I'd at least wait until you've heard how the situation has been dealt with but maybe someone on here will be able to give you more info on the legalities of it
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    Also I think I m really naïve but someone explain this sexual innuendo..
    You like the middle of the road, don't you?
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    (Original post by Cpj16)
    Also I think I m really naïve but someone explain this sexual innuendo..
    You like the middle of the road, don't you?
    He might have meant it literally, just seems to be some type of sexual innuendo because of the previous comments from him.
 
 
 
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