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    So matched a girl on tinder, we got on really well for like 2 weeks and so decided to meet up (she chose the day) so now it's a couple of days before our date, so I decided to ask her if she is still up for it... Had no reply. Before that, are our convos went really well, we have loads in common, and I'm positive I haven't done anything wrong. Now I know she can be terrible with replying, and she has been working on the days I asked her if she's still up for it.

    Any other idea why she may not reply? (I know she was really up for meeting up)


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    Why did you ask if she is still up for it. If she gave you a date she is up for it, if she flakes cut her off, but never assume she is not up for it. You probably made her panic, girls like playing stupid games like making dates then not texting until then.
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    (Original post by Unknown1907)
    So matched a girl on tinder, we got on really well for like 2 weeks and so decided to meet up (she chose the day) so now it's a couple of days before our date, so I decided to ask her if she is still up for it... Had no reply. Before that, are our convos went really well, we have loads in common, and I'm positive I haven't done anything wrong. Now I know she can be terrible with replying, and she has been working on the days I asked her if she's still up for it.

    Any other idea why she may not reply? (I know she was really up for meeting up)


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    Just sit back and relax. Don't text her till the night before....if you get no reply the night before the date she's a time waster and you should move on regardless of how it was before (trust me on that one).
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    (Original post by whorace)
    You probably made her panic, girls like playing stupid games like making dates then not texting until then.
    Why do girls do this though don't understand....
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why do girls do this though don't understand....
    Lots of reasons.

    They have been burned in the past for being too needy or desperate.
    They believe they will be burned for being needy or desperate.
    They do not want to look too eager.
    They have a lot of other attention and think if you are desperate something is wrong with you (sometimes pretty but insecure girls do this, in my experience).
    They lose interest due to scarcity, consider compliments for example, the more you give the less valuable each one becomes.

    They may also fear they won't have anything to talk about on the date so they avoid texting so they have something to say.

    They may have found someone more interesting.

    There is so many reasons mate it's impossible to say to be honest.
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    Tinder is terrible mate. She's probably got like 100 matches, and getting smashed a few times a week. Forget that ****. Join the real world :yy:
 
 
 
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