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  1. I have a cheating impulse? it't like one guy isn't enough for me, and before all the hate comes in i have tried to suppress the urge but i can't seem to.Also another thing is that my bf's friends seem to take advantage of me in certain situations. Cause one always keeps feeling me up whenever he gets the chance and recently fingered me too whilst visiting me. And these other ones did stuff with me too. After parties and things. None of these I've told my bf, but he doesn't seem to care when the others are quite close to me and normally what seems quite suspicious acting.I still end up doing things with the others when they make a move...(I'm 20) Should i tell him?...

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Just dont be in a monogamous relationship then. There is nothing wrong with being with multiple men as long as they dont all think they are your one and only. But cheating on someone when you have entered a monogamous relationship is just plain mean.
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Also my bf lets me wear even very revealing things in front of his friends and encourages me to do so too. is that normal?
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Also my bf lets me wear even very revealing things in front of his friends and encourages me to do so too. is that normal?
This is me, the OP
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I don't think they are your boyfriend's friends really if they are happy to cheat with you.

The fact that you're posting about this shows that you know you're in the wrong. It's not fair to your boyfriend.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
  1. I have a cheating impulse? it't like one guy isn't enough for me, and before all the hate comes in i have tried to suppress the urge but i can't seem to.Also another thing is that my bf's friends seem to take advantage of me in certain situations. Cause one always keeps feeling me up whenever he gets the chance and recently fingered me too whilst visiting me. And these other ones did stuff with me too. After parties and things. None of these I've told my bf, but he doesn't seem to care when the others are quite close to me and normally what seems quite suspicious acting.I still end up doing things with the others when they make a move...(I'm 20) Should i tell him?...

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Simple how would you feel if it got done to you, if you can't be faithful then stay single, no excuse for cheating.
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No, he sees you as an object. Whatever you wear, and whoever sees it, should be your choice
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I know a girl that's addicted to cheating lol it's pretty fugged up, she snares a guy and then gets her boyfriend to threaten him, must be for the attention

Lol that's a pretty messed up situation, I wonder if your bf is aware or if he doesn't care

Either way it's pretty messed up if your boyfriend doesn't know (does he?) all his mates snaking him behind his back
Don't think he knows. Happens when he's not looking/around.
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I don't think they are your boyfriend's friends really if they are happy to cheat with you.

The fact that you're posting about this shows that you know you're in the wrong. It's not fair to your boyfriend.
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Simple how would you feel if it got done to you, if you can't be faithful then stay single, no excuse for cheating.
I'm not the one who really gets the emotions when the bf cheats tbh. And no mater how i try not to, i always end up giving into the impulse's. Also He flirts with other girls around me and gets all touchy and once he did cheat and i caught him and apparently he is with other girls too behind my back, but i know he is. He doesn't admit he does do any of these tho. When i did catch him he blamed it on alcohol and the other girl.
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I don't think they are your boyfriend's friends really if they are happy to cheat with you.

The fact that you're posting about this shows that you know you're in the wrong. It's not fair to your boyfriend.

I have said not to try anything on me but they just laugh it off and say it's just for fun etc etc.
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I'm not the one who really gets the emotions when the bf cheats tbh. And no mater how i try not to, i always end up giving into the impulse's. Also He flirts with other girls around me and gets all touchy and once he did cheat and i caught him and apparently he is with other girls too behind my back, but i know he is. He doesn't admit he does do any of these tho. When i did catch him he blamed it on alcohol and the other girl.
Clearly you are both no good for each other, both of you are probably better off without each other.
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I'm not the one who really gets the emotions when the bf cheats tbh. And no mater how i try not to, i always end up giving into the impulse's. Also He flirts with other girls around me and gets all touchy and once he did cheat and i caught him and apparently he is with other girls too behind my back, but i know he is. He doesn't admit he does do any of these tho. When i did catch him he blamed it on alcohol and the other girl.
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I have said not to try anything on me but they just laugh it off and say it's just for fun etc etc.
I have to agree with what Rock Fan says. It looks like a toxic relationship going on.
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Just leave each other if you want to stay monogamous, or talk about having an open relationship since both of you are flirty with others.
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