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    my friend and i both have a crush on the same guy. Its pretty obvious and he knows she likes him but i've never admitted I like him to anyone. I have a feeling he might like me but i'm so scared that he doesn't and i'll lose my friend over it. Is it possible that he hasn't said anything because of my friend who he knows i'm very close to? should i just tell him?
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    Don't tell him how you feel.

    Instead ask him out on a date. You're more likely to get a constructive response using this method.
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    If you want to go out with him then just ask him out, though be aware this will likely make your friend annoyed/upset at you and may even ruin the friendship especially if you're as young as I'm assuming you are. So essentially you have to choose which is more important to you. Risk never going out with the guy or risk losing a friend.
 
 
 
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