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    (Original post by theDanIdentity)
    1) sluts do exist. guys and girls can be sluts. regardless though, guys actually do work (they gotta be funny, rich, good jobs, fashion sense; able to hold conversation; e.t.c all for the bedroom) to get those girls (that's why they are known as players/legends); all girls do is open their legs. that's it.

    2) ironically i met my ex at a club. we lasted for about a year. relationships come from anywhere.

    3) normal **people** are everywhere. no guy is high maintenance, because frankly no guy bothers with make-up or heels or weave or arrogance beyond comparison. 'high maintenance' means the amount of effort extended to keep them satisfied/happy. why do i say this? because with those traits; they'll never wash the dishes or do anything basic like that believing that it's the guys' job to do it. i mean, they'd have this air of 'i'm a queen, revere me as such' meaning that they've never met a mirror which they havn't liked. this coupled with the fact that they pour HOURS into their appearance means that they wouldn't take the slightest ribbing = no humour. you have a plastic doll walking around with which you can't play. who wants that? no guy is like that; as guys generally don't put that much effort into themselves; they aren't vain, mirrors aren't our bestfriends; we don't paint ourselves black and blue leave the house with one face and come back with another. we don't do any of that. we laugh at ourselves.

    which guy dismisses girls like dogs? there's actually a social experiment on this on youtube. i won't bore you with the details, but the results concluded that when turning down the opposite sex; girls were rude and disgustingly blunt about it. guys on the other hand, did so in a nice manner. what does that tell you?

    4) invalid answer as what may work for one person (dad) won't necessarily work for the next (Me or my siblings).
    Loool you are taking this way to seriously. Hope you enjoyed yourself deconstructing my response
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    (Original post by theDanIdentity)
    1) sluts do exist. guys and girls can be sluts. regardless though, guys actually do work (they gotta be funny, rich, good jobs, fashion sense; able to hold conversation; e.t.c all for the bedroom) to get those girls (that's why they are known as players/legends); all girls do is open their legs. that's it.

    2) ironically i met my ex at a club. we lasted for about a year. relationships come from anywhere.

    3) normal **people** are everywhere. no guy is high maintenance, because frankly no guy bothers with make-up or heels or weave or arrogance beyond comparison. 'high maintenance' means the amount of effort extended to keep them satisfied/happy. why do i say this? because with those traits; they'll never wash the dishes or do anything basic like that believing that it's the guys' job to do it. i mean, they'd have this air of 'i'm a queen, revere me as such' meaning that they've never met a mirror which they havn't liked. this coupled with the fact that they pour HOURS into their appearance means that they wouldn't take the slightest ribbing = no humour. you have a plastic doll walking around with which you can't play. who wants that? no guy is like that; as guys generally don't put that much effort into themselves; they aren't vain, mirrors aren't our bestfriends; we don't paint ourselves black and blue leave the house with one face and come back with another. we don't do any of that. we laugh at ourselves.

    which guy dismisses girls like dogs? there's actually a social experiment on this on youtube. i won't bore you with the details, but the results concluded that when turning down the opposite sex; girls were rude and disgustingly blunt about it. guys on the other hand, did so in a nice manner. what does that tell you?

    4) invalid answer as what may work for one person (dad) won't necessarily work for the next (Me or my siblings).
    Girls are blunt because some of you men wont take no for an answer . Some girls have developed this attitude as a defense mech. Unless were interested we dont care to be disturbed. Some of you are just making the rest of you lot look bad..not our fault. Ever seen a girl misinterpret rejection as a hint to keep trying to badger a guy??
    That being said boys are more likely to have greater expectations when it comes to what they expect from girls. All we ask is that you treat us nicely and you dont smell awful.

    And lool guys dont have to work to get girls lool what lies! there are girls who will sleep with the first and last girl who is nice to them.. how hard is it to be nicd. Plus half of the boys out there as you said are low maintainance and are pretty much have little going for them in terms of appearance or telligence and smell yet have more one night stands than girls.

    Girls have to be high maintainence or at least look decent before you boys are interested. How many people can sloppy dave pick up versus average lucy. Girls dont "just open their legs" they have stupid beauty standards to live up to. Anyone wanna sleep with fat bald successful lucy "the slut" with her legs wide open? I doubt it. What about sloppy dave the nice guy? More likely
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    Just messing with you.

    I'm not a ****.

    Girls do genuinely go out to socialise, dance etc. So do guys.

    But it is guys who are often guilty of turning clubs into 'meat markets' with their constant advances. Many girls would like to have conversations with guys without the expectation of it leading to sex all the time.

    Having said that there are clearly plenty of women out there who behave just as badly as men.
    I totally agree 😊
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    (Original post by AvaLisa12)
    Girls are blunt because some of you men wont take no for an answer . Some girls have developed this attitude as a defense mech. Unless were interested we dont care to be disturbed. Some of you are just making the rest of you lot look bad..not our fault. Ever seen a girl misinterpret rejection as a hint to keep trying to badger a guy??
    That being said boys are more likely to have greater expectations when it comes to what they expect from girls. All we ask is that you treat us nicely and you dont smell awful.

    And lool guys dont have to work to get girls lool what lies! there are girls who will sleep with the first and last girl who is nice to them.. how hard is it to be nicd. Plus half of the boys out there as you said are low maintainance and are pretty much have little going for them in terms of appearance or telligence and smell yet have more one night stands than girls.

    Girls have to be high maintainence or at least look decent before you boys are interested. How many people can sloppy dave pick up versus average lucy. Girls dont "just open their legs" they have stupid beauty standards to live up to. Anyone wanna sleep with fat bald successful lucy "the slut" with her legs wide open? I doubt it. What about sloppy dave the nice guy? More likely
    how old are you? there is so much wrong with your mentality, i'm quite baffled. there's no way you're older than 15 at best.

    you're still saying 'no' though? it's not like it'll kill you to say it in a nice manner? what, an attitude to be a ***** to any and all whoever say 'hi' even if it's just a random guy passing by in the street? charming.
    ohh. you forgot the guy must also be: popular/social status/6'3/rich/funny/fantastic job/hench/award-winning genius level intellect; e.t.c. my bad, forgot it was a crime to have guy friends.
    'treat us nicely'? ohh? my bad. if treating each other nicely was the key to all successful relationships; then i wonder why the term 'gold-diggers' exist. or why relationships end/marriages divorce.
    'half the boys have little going for them' < these boys you're talking about actually bothered to improve aspects about themselves (most of them confidence) before they could be as marginally successful as you perceive them to be. even then, if a girl had an inch of those skills, her body count would be triple that of any guy around. i know this, as a very close friend of mine has slept with at least 35 guys that i know of. she has the tiniest amount of confidence; much more than what most girls have today.

    'And lool guys dont have to work to get girls lool what lies! there are girls who will sleep with the first and last girl who is nice to them.' << now i definitely know i'm talking to a child here. a random guy who's just being nice? so does the dad count then? no? what about that bestfriend who's in the friend zone? so many things wrong with this loooooooool. it's cliche to say this but, where do you think the term: 'treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen' came from?

    oi. 'more one night stands than guys'? how old are you? have you actually been in a club? i've lost count of the amount of times my neighbour has come back with a random guy she met one second after she left in the club. one ****ing second. her body count's twice mine and yet mine is the highest in all the guys ive met. regardless, if average lucy actually worked on her skills as an individual; without any makeup she'd still be getting three times as many bodies as sloppy dave. that's the silly little thing women don't realize. makeups' useless; after all there Will be a point in time the guy would see you for who you are. what then?
    no girl has to be high maintenance before one notices them. that is just idiotic. if that were the case then nobody would be on earth right now. why? because there was a ****ing point in history when there wasn't any makeup. but that didn't stop children from being born did it? there's nothing wrong with looking decent. in taking the time to look attractive without taking it to the extreme and becoming so stuckup your own ass you can't even tell that there's a sun in existence.using your logic, then that would mean that ALL women are prissy, little, stuckup *****es who have no care in the world other than what dolce & gabanna bag to stuff their little puppy into! no one enforces any ****ing beauty standards thats' what i'm trying to get at here! you are allowed to live as you want. the only thing that enforces those 'beauty standards' are all the makeup companies and magazines/ads looking to make a quick buck out of addicted makeup users.it's the exact same thing for guys. no guy is forced to look hench and hit the gym all the time just because the tv ****ing said so lol. it's something that's a personal choice, not to be influenced just because some random tom, ****/harry said so.
    source of this? i'm a phd student. 5 years of a very promiscous uni followed by two even more sexually exalted places of learning. all the whilst clubbing at least 2-3 times a week.
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    (Original post by Chakede)
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    To listen to music, to spend time with their friends, to get drunk, to pull, to relax.

    Any number of reasons. Same with men.
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    (Original post by theDanIdentity)
    how old are you? there is so much wrong with your mentality, i'm quite baffled. there's no way you're older than 15 at best.

    you're still saying 'no' though? it's not like it'll kill you to say it in a nice manner? what, an attitude to be a ***** to any and all whoever say 'hi' even if it's just a random guy passing by in the street? charming.
    ohh. you forgot the guy must also be: popular/social status/6'3/rich/funny/fantastic job/hench/award-winning genius level intellect; e.t.c. my bad, forgot it was a crime to have guy friends.
    'treat us nicely'? ohh? my bad. if treating each other nicely was the key to all successful relationships; then i wonder why the term 'gold-diggers' exist. or why relationships end/marriages divorce.
    'half the boys have little going for them' < these boys you're talking about actually bothered to improve aspects about themselves (most of them confidence) before they could be as marginally successful as you perceive them to be. even then, if a girl had an inch of those skills, her body count would be triple that of any guy around. i know this, as a very close friend of mine has slept with at least 35 guys that i know of. she has the tiniest amount of confidence; much more than what most girls have today.

    'And lool guys dont have to work to get girls lool what lies! there are girls who will sleep with the first and last girl who is nice to them.' << now i definitely know i'm talking to a child here. a random guy who's just being nice? so does the dad count then? no? what about that bestfriend who's in the friend zone? so many things wrong with this loooooooool. it's cliche to say this but, where do you think the term: 'treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen' came from?

    oi. 'more one night stands than guys'? how old are you? have you actually been in a club? i've lost count of the amount of times my neighbour has come back with a random guy she met one second after she left in the club. one ****ing second. her body count's twice mine and yet mine is the highest in all the guys ive met. regardless, if average lucy actually worked on her skills as an individual; without any makeup she'd still be getting three times as many bodies as sloppy dave. that's the silly little thing women don't realize. makeups' useless; after all there Will be a point in time the guy would see you for who you are. what then?
    no girl has to be high maintenance before one notices them. that is just idiotic. if that were the case then nobody would be on earth right now. why? because there was a ****ing point in history when there wasn't any makeup. but that didn't stop children from being born did it? there's nothing wrong with looking decent. in taking the time to look attractive without taking it to the extreme and becoming so stuckup your own ass you can't even tell that there's a sun in existence.using your logic, then that would mean that ALL women are prissy, little, stuckup *****es who have no care in the world other than what dolce & gabanna bag to stuff their little puppy into! no one enforces any ****ing beauty standards thats' what i'm trying to get at here! you are allowed to live as you want. the only thing that enforces those 'beauty standards' are all the makeup companies and magazines/ads looking to make a quick buck out of addicted makeup users.it's the exact same thing for guys. no guy is forced to look hench and hit the gym all the time just because the tv ****ing said so lol. it's something that's a personal choice, not to be influenced just because some random tom, ****/harry said so.
    source of this? i'm a phd student. 5 years of a very promiscous uni followed by two even more sexually exalted places of learning. all the whilst clubbing at least 2-3 times a week.
    Im well over 15 and theres nothing wrong with my answer your just twisting it and putting words into my mouth. Good luck spending eternity alone 😙

    Looooooool whobsaid men have to be any of those things. Theyd be little people on earth if that were the case. How come women are almost always the better looking partner. Because thats what men look for. Why do you even stop girls in the street? Because you liked what you saw. Women have to look nice to be NOTICED (nobody said anything about make up -_- you dont have to wear make up to look nice OR be high maintenance you just have to put in effort)
    And beauty standards arent the fault of the media please stop talking. Mens beauty standards are based on what women find attractive and womens are based on what men find attractive. BUT THE THING IS men dont feel the need to 'pump up in the gym -_-' because women will still take interest as we dont just have one preference, i mean how many girls do you know who actually like buff guys in terms as of a potential partner eurgh (men wont be as harshly insulted by the opposite sex) whilst men rarely take interest in women you arent the stereotypical image of beauty i.e the fat girl. Dont tell me girls just have to open their legs thats far from the truth. Men can be sloppy and broke and still get what they want. Yet women end up falling for moany broke unattractive dave who spends his whole life thinking he had to be rich and fit to get the wife he has. Even married women are expected to look good after marraige...by their partners standards not the media. Nice guys win in reality stop watching tv ffs, who is 6'3".
    How foolish to assume a girls father counts as the nice guy? Do you have learning difficulties? By nice treatment I think its obvious i mean in terms of mutual respect in the instance of friends..and yes guys and girls can be friends DUH -_- im saying you could get those female friends to sleep with you if youre nice enough. The best relationships start off as friendships. Are you sure youre not a child i mean common sense and limited comprehension skill were all that was needed to understand what i already made clear.

    And youre not entitled to be treated nicely by a women(stranger) just because you were nice. We (women) dont owe you anything. If you would stop giving yourselves a bad image maybe women wouldnt be so quick to judge you lot as a group. More often than not the men who approach women are ***** and the rest probably just liked what you saw too. I meam how much can you tell aboutna stranger at first glance but you still feel the need to approach. AS YOU SAID after a while you see people for who they really are.

    1. Not that i said anything about clubs in my post -_- but of course ive been to a club im a student.
    2. Your female friend doesnt represent the female population
    3. Didnt ask for your background tbh i dont care to know it -_-

    Ps: use your head the original post was about finding a normal girl not a gold digger. If YOURE personally LOOKING for a gold digger then no sh*t sherlock youre gonna need some cash. Second, relationships end because one partner stops being 'nice'. Or are you trying to say men get shorter, dumber, and broke as the relationship/ marraige progresses. You proved my point with that comment. Its not acquired skills or height -_- that maintains marraiges its treatment. TREAT THEM MEAN TO KEEP THEM KEEN?? Thats phrase is pre 1980's and needs to stay there. Last time i heard (a monemt ago) being mean to men while rejecting them made you a ***** -_-
    Again nice always wins in the long run


    PS: There was a time when magazine, advert or digital media didnt exist...but guess what! BEAUTY STANDARDS AND FEMALE EXPECTATIONS DID. (Men werent expected to do anything just persaude some **** to give you their daughter)

    Urgh lastly it has killed women saying 'no' nicely. Again some of you cant tak a simple no for an answer. Being blunt saves time and lives duh. Friendzone exists because women dont HAVE to **** every friend who wants to **** them (stop acting so entitled to our bodies). Maybe they would....theyre just choosing not to "its not a crime for guys and girls to be friends" did you not just say more or less.

    Its like talking to a child with you. Phd.. really.
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    bunch of dirty theives
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    (Original post by AvaLisa12)
    Im well over 15 and theres nothing wrong with my answer yours just twisting it and putting words into my mouth. Good luck spending eternity alone 😙
    congratulations; you're still a child. there's so much you don't know. but the above i mentioned are just the basics. i never twisted anything. regardless, no man falls for beauty (or rather, men Shouldn't); because that.. fades with time. what else do you have? funny? confidence? smartness? what else makes you unique and different to all the other plastic models out there? there will come a time (in all relationships/interactions) that you'll have to show that. if all you are is just a colouring book (ironically blaming it on 'societys' rules' ); where does that leave you? society won't convince that guy who sees past the cakeup to stay with you, you know.

    leul. i'm actually seeing a couple of girls right now :P so the 'spending eternity alone' doesn't quite fit. even got one of them to treat me to an all expense paid weekend trip.
    adios
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    Oh my God. Are you the one that keeps on posting anon things like "why do girls wear heels" and why do girls do that and that and crap?!
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    Literally, I just want to listen to good music and have a good time with my mates.

    That's it.
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    To look pretty and attract guys? I don't know. Why do guys go to clubs? The exact same reason why girls do. There has to be girls willing to kiss the guys going to clubs, right?

    Multiple reasons + from what i heard, clubs are fun. Do you have fun at clubs?
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    (Original post by Chakede)
    bunch of dirty theives
    That's right suckkaa.

    Haha your initial post was so random n funny.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    That's right suckkaa.

    Haha your initial post was so random n funny.
    im personally going into every Oceana in the country and remove the bog roll

    hahaha Now what?
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    (Original post by theDanIdentity)
    congratulations; you're still a child. there's so much you don't know. but the above i mentioned are just the basics. i never twisted anything. regardless, no man falls for beauty (or rather, men Shouldn't); because that.. fades with time. what else do you have? funny? confidence? smartness? what else makes you unique and different to all the other plastic models out there? there will come a time (in all relationships/interactions) that you'll have to show that. if all you are is just a colouring book (ironically blaming it on 'societys' rules' ); where does that leave you? society won't convince that guy who sees past the cakeup to stay with you, you know.

    leul. i'm actually seeing a couple of girls right now :P so the 'spending eternity alone' doesn't quite fit. even got one of them to treat me to an all expense paid weekend trip.
    adios
    This is where youre twisting things:
    1.NOBODY SAID ANYTHING ABOUT SOCIETIES RULES.
    2. NOBODY IS TALKING ABOUT LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS. WHO GIVES A **** IF BEAUTY FADES. THE POST WAS ABOUT FINDING A NORMAL GIRLS WHO ISNT A SLUT --> THERE ARE NONE (SLUTS) BECAUSE GIRLS DONT JUST OPEN THEIR LEGS
    3. I SAID GIRLS HAVE TO BE HIGH MAINTENANCE.......OR AT LEAST LOOK DECENT.
    But you know what maybe you arent twisting things, maybe youre some odd kind of illiterate

    And why lie? Guys like the look of those high maintaince females thats why they get so much attention in the first place. They sure as hell dont get it from us girls. If the attention stopped so would all the effort duh. I live in the real world i see what turns heads (dont know what magazines you read tbh)

    Having a lot to learn doesnt make you a child. Are you sure you live in the real world. And i dont wish to learn any of that nonsense youve just spewed.
    Lool forever proving my point. Even you (obviously not rich 6foot 3 and sure as hell not intelligent) has 'a couple of girls' youre seeing right now. And I have many great qualities unlike that plastic caked up barbie youre into. Im far from it. But hey when I can get "a couple of" guys to "see" just by opening my legs ill let you know x toodles -_-

    If youre gonna reply with the usual nonsense dont bother -_-
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    (Original post by theDanIdentity)
    how old are you? there is so much wrong with your mentality, i'm quite baffled. there's no way you're older than 15 at best.

    you're still saying 'no' though? it's not like it'll kill you to say it in a nice manner? what, an attitude to be a ***** to any and all whoever say 'hi' even if it's just a random guy passing by in the street? charming.
    ohh. you forgot the guy must also be: popular/social status/6'3/rich/funny/fantastic job/hench/award-winning genius level intellect; e.t.c. my bad, forgot it was a crime to have guy friends.
    'treat us nicely'? ohh? my bad. if treating each other nicely was the key to all successful relationships; then i wonder why the term 'gold-diggers' exist. or why relationships end/marriages divorce.
    'half the boys have little going for them' < these boys you're talking about actually bothered to improve aspects about themselves (most of them confidence) before they could be as marginally successful as you perceive them to be. even then, if a girl had an inch of those skills, her body count would be triple that of any guy around. i know this, as a very close friend of mine has slept with at least 35 guys that i know of. she has the tiniest amount of confidence; much more than what most girls have today.

    'And lool guys dont have to work to get girls lool what lies! there are girls who will sleep with the first and last girl who is nice to them.' << now i definitely know i'm talking to a child here. a random guy who's just being nice? so does the dad count then? no? what about that bestfriend who's in the friend zone? so many things wrong with this loooooooool. it's cliche to say this but, where do you think the term: 'treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen' came from?

    oi. 'more one night stands than guys'? how old are you? have you actually been in a club? i've lost count of the amount of times my neighbour has come back with a random guy she met one second after she left in the club. one ****ing second. her body count's twice mine and yet mine is the highest in all the guys ive met. regardless, if average lucy actually worked on her skills as an individual; without any makeup she'd still be getting three times as many bodies as sloppy dave. that's the silly little thing women don't realize. makeups' useless; after all there Will be a point in time the guy would see you for who you are. what then?
    no girl has to be high maintenance before one notices them. that is just idiotic. if that were the case then nobody would be on earth right now. why? because there was a ****ing point in history when there wasn't any makeup. but that didn't stop children from being born did it? there's nothing wrong with looking decent. in taking the time to look attractive without taking it to the extreme and becoming so stuckup your own ass you can't even tell that there's a sun in existence.using your logic, then that would mean that ALL women are prissy, little, stuckup *****es who have no care in the world other than what dolce & gabanna bag to stuff their little puppy into! no one enforces any ****ing beauty standards thats' what i'm trying to get at here! you are allowed to live as you want. the only thing that enforces those 'beauty standards' are all the makeup companies and magazines/ads looking to make a quick buck out of addicted makeup users.it's the exact same thing for guys. no guy is forced to look hench and hit the gym all the time just because the tv ****ing said so lol. it's something that's a personal choice, not to be influenced just because some random tom, ****/harry said so.
    source of this? i'm a phd student. 5 years of a very promiscous uni followed by two even more sexually exalted places of learning. all the whilst clubbing at least 2-3 times a week.
    Accidentally liked this, pure sloppy mouse work. It was a mistake and I have no excuse. Sorry :/
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    I am not really a club person, I am more of a "pubber". However I've been clubbing a few times with my friends. Why? I don't go out to make out with anyone, actually I've never made out with someone in a club. Sometimes I just feel like having a couple drinks, disconnect from everything and just dance with the loud music and flashing lights. Sometimes **** is going on in your life and you just need a little bit of attention. And some girls will go out because they do want to make out or just plain love clubs. I guess everyone is different and have different reasons to go out clubbing.
 
 
 
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