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    I dated a guy who was very nice. After a month, he confessed the reason why his last relationship ended was because he beat his previous girlfriend to a pulp when he found out she cheated on him.

    Two months later, as soon as there was an issue which I didn't like, I ended it. I picked an argument that he still had his ex's photos on his phone - it honestly didn't bother me at all, but I was waiting for any excuse to leave.

    The ONLY reason I stayed with him for another two months after his admission was because I didn't want to discourage him from being honest with any other girl he dates in the future.
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    Ex no 1- he was going nowhere in life. Last I heard he has 3 kids that he doesn't see. Glad I listened to my gran and dumped him.

    Ex no 2- emotionally immature and manipulative now that I think of it.

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    (Original post by stargirl63)
    I dated a guy who was very nice. After a month, he confessed the reason why his last relationship ended was because he beat his previous girlfriend to a pulp when he found out she cheated on him.

    Two months later, as soon as there was an issue which I didn't like, I ended it. I picked an argument that he still had his ex's photos on his phone - it honestly didn't bother me at all, but I was waiting for any excuse to leave.

    The ONLY reason I stayed with him for another two months after his admission was because I didn't want to discourage him from being honest with any other girl he dates in the future.
    I think he could have lied possibly so you don't cheat....
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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    lucky escape from my abusive ex who the police needed to move me away from and i needed an emergency injunction on him for harassment
    At least you didn't have his kids
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    Dated a guy for five years who had an ideology yhat if you didn't know what you wanted from life there was no use trying. As the man of the relationship he thought i would stick around doing a job that made me miserable until he figured it out. When I moved away he swore he'd come with me but made hundreds of excuses not to and kept trying to restrict my options. So i dumped him in the hope he'd actually start acting like an adult.
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    (Original post by mkap)
    yeah this was before i started practising
    Can I ask a question ? Totally irrelevant bt is that u in ur profile pic?
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    I'm reading some of these like :shock:

    Where do you find these characters??
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    (Original post by future doctor x)
    Can I ask a question ? Totally irrelevant bt is that u in ur profile pic?
    yeah
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    (Original post by Daniellaaa)
    At least you didn't have his kids
    is this another dig?

    and no i didnt have his kids
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    Tried to tell me she was pregnant with my kid. I broke up with her until she provided proof, and then promised I'd make up for lost time if it turned out to be true.
    It didn't :bhangra:

    (Original post by mkap)
    Some guy i was going out with was horny af and i refused to lose my virginity and sleep with him. He just randomly asked what I would do if he forced me to have sex with him, if i would go to the police or not. I dumped him straight away and blocked him. I later found out he was in 20 grand debt for drug dealing.
    I'm sorry I did that to you. I'll never do it a-gain
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    (Original post by Rock Fan)
    I've had quite a few but one was in prison not long after I split with her, another threatened to beat my family up and lied about being pregnant after I finished with her for being controlling.
    yooooooo what the **** stop stealing my life?! :eek4:

    :rofl: literally just wrote that, these women can be crazy. Here's to dodging them properly :shakehand:
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    (Original post by mango peeler)
    Tried to tell me she was pregnant with my kid. I broke up with her until she provided proof, and then promised I'd make up for lost time if it turned out to be true.
    It didn't :bhangra:



    I'm sorry I did that to you. I'll never do it a-gain
    huh? i dont get u
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    (Original post by mkap)
    huh? i dont get u
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    (Original post by mango peeler)
    yooooooo what the **** stop stealing my life?! :eek4:

    :rofl: literally just wrote that, these women can be crazy. Here's to dodging them properly :shakehand:
    I do seem to pick them unfortunately, I heard horror stories about some guys as well so guess they are as bad as each other.
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    (Original post by mango peeler)
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    i cant reply to you VM but i realised that haha. i didnt get what you meant at first
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    (Original post by Rock Fan)
    I do seem to pick them unfortunately, I heard horror stories about some guys as well so guess they are as bad as each other.
    Guys pretending to be pregnant? lol
    I honestly haven't heard much **** about men as far as manipulating the women to stay with them. Maybe manipulating her into getting with him like lying about some important detail but scheming to keep her around, only one time and he trapped her with a suicide threat. It's mostly women playing these games.

    (Original post by mkap)
    i cant reply to you VM but i realised that haha. i didnt get what you meant at first
    I don't want VMs but yea just wanted to clarify
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    I don't think I have ever needed to 'escape' sure my ex was a bit confused and shallow, but she wasn't a nut like most of the people described here, just a bit rude and immature.
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    (Original post by mango peeler)
    Guys pretending to be pregnant? lol
    I honestly haven't heard much **** about men as far as manipulating the women to stay with them. Maybe manipulating her into getting with him like lying about some important detail but scheming to keep her around, only one time and he trapped her with a suicide threat. It's mostly women playing these games.



    I don't want VMs but yea just wanted to clarify
    Not in the terms of pretending to be pregnant, heard stories of guys saying they will kill themselves if their girlfriends left them.
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    (Original post by Rock Fan)
    Not in the terms of pretending to be pregnant, heard stories of guys saying they will kill themselves if their girlfriends left them.
    Yea exactly, the suicide threats. Madness. I've had females do that as well, it's actually scary and altogether ****ed up.
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    (Original post by Pseudo-truth)
    I'm reading some of these like :shock:

    Where do you find these characters??
    Same!

    Seriously... People are that deceptive? Or are most people just really bloody blind to the ways of folk when lust/love is involved?
 
 
 
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