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    Got well close with this girl over the past month, been out for drinks round her house to meet her family. Few weeks back we both said we didn't want anything serious ( i thought friends with benefits) so i was ok with that. then the next day she decided she doesn't want that so she just wants to be friends. i just agreed.

    ever since the conversation she hasn't been texting as much or in the fashion she used to. This frustrates me as i really enjoyed her company. i want to message her all the time but dont want to come across needy. Cant stop thinking of her. Think i may have feelings for her but not sure if its because im just horny . Should i somehow ask her if we can try to make a relationship work. but then shes gonna think im only saying that to have sex. what to do?

    now she hasn't replied in days i don't know what to do man help!
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    Welcome Squad

    Weirdly enough, this seems to be common after someone confesses their feelings and the other doesn't feel the same way. She's probably afraid of getting on your nerves or appearing like she's 'leading you on' when in actual fact, you like her company regardless of whether the feelings are requited or not.

    Give it and while and then text her casually, in the same manner you were texting before things became silent. Good luck!

    If there's anything else you'd like to ask, just quote me and I'll try to help you out as soon as possible.
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