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    Got well close with this girl over the past month, been out for drinks round her house to meet her family. Few weeks back we both said we didn't want anything serious ( i thought friends with benefits) so i was ok with that. then the next day she decided she doesn't want that so she just wants to be friends. i just agreed.

    ever since the conversation she hasn't been texting as much or in the fashion she used to. This frustrates me as i really enjoyed her company. i want to message her all the time but dont want to come across needy. Cant stop thinking of her. Think i may have feelings for her but not sure if its because im just horny . Should i somehow ask her if we can try to make a relationship work. but then shes gonna think im only saying that to have sex. what to do?

    now she hasn't replied in days i don't know what to do man help!
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    (Original post by Mezmo)
    Got well close with this girl over the past month, been out for drinks round her house to meet her family. Few weeks back we both said we didn't want anything serious ( i thought friends with benefits) so i was ok with that. then the next day she decided she doesn't want that so she just wants to be friends. i just agreed.

    ever since the conversation she hasn't been texting as much or in the fashion she used to. This frustrates me as i really enjoyed her company. i want to message her all the time but dont want to come across needy. Cant stop thinking of her. Think i may have feelings for her but not sure if its because im just horny . Should i somehow ask her if we can try to make a relationship work. but then shes gonna think im only saying that to have sex. what to do?

    now she hasn't replied in days i don't know what to do man help!
    Just ask her for drinks and ask her then although if she changed her mind don't know if she will agree. Just text to arrange a time and date
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    Texting is useless in a relationship.

    Go and see the woman and say how you feel.
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    Flowers, chocolates, chloroform.
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    She doesn't like you bro....
    Listen, been watching House M.D lately...
    Ite, Imma prescribe you with some Young Dro: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94MK2JQIgFs

    You should start to notice changes immediately

    Don't forget tho, a relationship is a double edged sword, you don't wanna be the only one getting cut. Best cure, walk away and just stare at some other booty

    But do what these respectful people said before me, find her IRL, and be like, what's up, and be clear, "Is there going to be any kind of progression in this relationship" anything other than yes, just bounce init.
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    (Original post by SchoolAside)
    Flowers, chocolates, chloroform.
    That combo works, but the last item is crucial. Even if you forget the rest, having the last item always pulls through.
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    I'd suggest the same as chikane, ask her if she wants to meet up to hang out and see how you feel when you're around her. It doesn't sound like you even know what you want with her at the minute (relationship, fwb, sex, etc) so it's important to establish that in your own mind first before you make any moves on her.
 
 
 
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