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Some friendly advice please

Heya, well basically cut it short. I just got a job, and there is this girl, who I know hardly anything about but she just kinda attracts me and I wanna find out more about her. Basically wanna try and get details like e-mail phone number etc but not sure how to go around it in a non freaky way.
Just some info incase y'aal need it. I'm 16, male. She's 16-17 I'm not really sure lol.
So aye any advice on how to advance and have a wee chat?
Thank yee

Reply 1

Just casually ask her for her number and maybe suggest going out as friends sometime.

Reply 2

just talk to her

Reply 3

Talk to her?

Reply 4

Aye but I'm rather timid lol so I would find it hard to just go up to her and say that ^^
I mean I have a long shift with her on saturday's but no guarentee we will be in close proximity where I would find it easier.

Reply 5

Casually ask, "So what are you doing tonight? Meeting up with friends or your boyfriend?" Then if she says "Boyfriend? I dont have a boyfriend at the moment!" Then you can swoop in, ask her a bit about herself every week, then after a while suggest going for a drink/coffee where you can talk more, and there arent other people around. etc etc

Reply 6

Hmm I like the method to find out if she is single or not lol very crafty but good ^^
This is gonna be interesting this saturday because this friday is my schools prom and I'm going in full scottish attire it finishes at 12pm then it's my friends birthday party right over so I'm either gonna turn up in a kilt and such or not at all. I wonder if she likes naked legs :tongue:

Reply 7

If not she may be partial to some scrotum, so you'd be well in.

Reply 8

OP try some friendly convo with her doubt she will bite you or get upset unless you insult her!! good luck!!

Reply 9

I think that if you try too hard to ascertain information about her she might become suspicious and wary. :rolleyes:

I think you should basically try and talk to her without a game plan. By the time you know whether you actually really do like her and it's not just some passing crush, you should know also whether she has a boyfriend or not because it WILL have come up in conversation NATURALLY. I think placing pressure on yourself to move things along too swiftly could back fire easily so instead just try and be friendly and approachable and allow thing to flow.

Good luck :biggrin:

Reply 10

Aye, thanks to everyone who replied. I am in work tommorow but not sure if she has a shift, guess I will find out ^^ and if that fails I always have saturday with my kilt xD man that's gonna be odd but heck I look quite good in a kilt so mebes it will be a good thing for me ^^
Again thanks all. Pleasent dreams

Reply 11

Break into the personnel files and find out everything you possibly can about her, then periodically surprise her with a piece of your extensive knowledge of her life. Claim to be psychic.

Or talk to her.