would you be annoyed if a guy made you pay for your drink Watch

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so I just asked this girl out for a drink and I'm seeing her tomorrow. Problem is I'm too broke to buy a drink, should I just get her to pay for it herself
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tell her your situation and say you'll pay for drinks next time
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tell her to pay for your drinks
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Nah I wouldn't mind. I would expect to pay at least something on a date anyway.
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(Original post by mkap)
tell her your situation and say you'll pay for drinks next time
Ahh, okay. Good idea
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tell her your situation and say you'll pay for drinks next time
Are you joking?


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(Original post by Underscore__)
Are you joking?


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whats wrong with what i said?
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Are you joking?


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no jk lol
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In modern times you'd hope it wouldn't matter
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She can pay for her own drinks!

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Nah I wouldn't mind. I would expect to pay at least something on a date anyway.
hahahahaha last girl I was with was a massive gold digger. luckily I didn't spend that much on her...
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You're under no obligation to pay and she shouldn't expect you to, don't be rude about it though
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Personally I prefer to get mine, problem is some people think it's kinda polite to offer. If you want to clarify, just ask if she wouldn't mind getting her own this time and you'll make it up to her if she wants. Or just assume, seeing as it's the 21st century and all, that she'll buy hers herself and don't even mention it. It's not like she can ask you to buy it for her haha. I've never really liked girls that expect the guy to pay, I have a few friends who do that and I think it's a bit tasteless and archaic tbh.
Or you could rearrange and do something that's free like go to the park and hang out there.
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Can you afford your own drink? I don't think it's a big deal having her pay for her own drink (she should anyway) but we can't predict how she is going to see it, it might be a bigger deal for her in which case it might cause a problem.
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whats wrong with what i said?
why should she expect him to pay for her drinks? why doesn't she pay for his drinks?
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Tell her that you're broke. Most normal girls won't expect the guy to pay anyway

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We would more likely do rounds with my group of friends and my boyfriend. When you go a for "a drink" it doesn't normally just mean one drink. So are you able to drink more than one drink?
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(Original post by lllllllllll)
So I just asked this girl out for a drink and I'm seeing her tomorrow. Problem is I'm too broke to buy a drink, should I just get her to pay for it herself
Yes they should. They want equality, well this is it. Can't ****ing pick and choose when they'd like it.
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Thanks everyone, I'll just tell her I'm broke for this month
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We would more likely do rounds with my group of friends and my boyfriend. When you go a for "a drink" it doesn't normally just mean one drink. So are you able to drink more than one drink?
No, we're going for just a coffee haha. I'm broke for this entire month so one is more than enough :P
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