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Friend's boyfriend

Ok, basically, my best friend was goin out wit this guy, but she was always bitchin bout him to me n stuff n always goin on to me bout how she felt insecure in the relationship. They were goin out for bout 3 years i think.

So neways, I'v liked him for bout a year n I saw him out bout 2 months ago n we pulled n now we're goin out. My friend was pissed for ages, but then we decided to meet up to go to the cinema/ talk things through. So I thought it'd be awkward with just me n her, so i brot my boyf along n we were bein affectionate n stuff n now she's bein a complete cow to me. Why is she bein such a bitch?

Troll much?

lol probs. or just VERY thick

Reply 3

suzkat

OP

Erm.......what's a troll?
And if you aren't gonna help me, don't bother.

Reply 4

cheekylittleminx

If she did it to you how would you feel?

Reply 5

supernova2

11

Op you're an idiot. Your friends probably just ashamed of you.

Reply 6

suzkat

OP

She was always bitchin bout him tho, n she wasnt happy wit him neways. And me n him liked each other neways so it was bound to happen soon. Whats the point in him being wit sum1 whos not even that good 4 him?

Reply 7

cheekylittleminx

suzkat

Whats the point in him being wit sum1 whos not even that good 4 him?

You sound like a real good friend to have

Reply 8

Lime_01

suzkat

Whats the point in him being wit sum1 whos not even that good 4 him?

You sound like a great mate!!!! Seconded supernova

EDIT: beaten to it

Reply 9

username47781

20

Firstly, talk in proper english please, do not use text talk.

Let me see if I can make sense of it, your friend has been going out with her boyfriend for 3 years but bitches about him. So you met with him in a pub and you kissed him right?

Yet you have a boyfriend as well. Don't you think you are being very stupid.

Reply 10

Riim

Lol... I can't believe you're having to ask what went wrong. :yawn:

Just try going through the scenario again, this time switching places with your best friend.

Reply 11

cheekylittleminx

It's my life

Firstly, talk in proper english please, do not use text talk.

Let me see if I can make sense of it, your friend has been going out with her boyfriend for 3 years but bitches about him. So you met with him in a pub and you kissed him right?

Yet you have a boyfriend as well. Don't you think you are being very stupid.

The bf she has is her mates ex

Reply 12

username47781

20

cheekylittleminx

The bf she has is her mates ex

So basically she got with him while he was still with her best friend?
Wow what a nice person er not. And she is wondering why thinks are not alright.

I feel sorry for her so called best friend in this.

Reply 13

cheekylittleminx

From what I can tell it was after her mate split up with him

Shame on you girl.

cheekylittleminx

From what I can tell it was after her mate split up with him

Even so what a dumb question, it's no wonder she's pissed off. It is never a good idea going after your best friends ex boyfriend.

Reply 16

Unregistered

suzkat

Ok, basically, my best friend was goin out wit this guy, but she was always bitchin bout him to me n stuff n always goin on to me bout how she felt insecure in the relationship. They were goin out for bout 3 years i think.

So neways, I'v liked him for bout a year n I saw him out bout 2 months ago n we pulled n now we're goin out. My friend was pissed for ages, but then we decided to meet up to go to the cinema/ talk things through. So I thought it'd be awkward with just me n her, so i brot my boyf along n we were bein affectionate n stuff n now she's bein a complete cow to me. Why is she bein such a bitch?

Are you a complete ******? You brought her ex, now your boyfriend, out with you because you thought it would be awkward WITHOUT him??

They were going out for 3 years, she didn't stay with him that long for no reason! If she disliked him that much she was always free to go.

So... you then rubbed it in her face by bringing him along AND THEN being affectionate in front of her.

You're lucky you didn't get a slap. Stupid girl.

Reply 17

BibbleJW

12

Ok, the first thing I am going to day is to remind the OP that this is, in fact, the internet. The equivalent of millions of characters are sent to and from your computer every second without you realising it. You have in front of you a QWERTY keyboard. What I am getting at is that there is no rush to post, nor is there a character limit. So, please, if you wish for us to help, use actual words, not text speak.

Onto the problem. As far as I can fathom it, your friend was complaining about her boyfriend, so you met him in a club and "pulled" him. He is now your boyfriend. Your friend was not very happy about this, but eventually decided to meet with you, in order to hear your side of the story. You thought that this might be awkward, so you took along the boyfriend that, in her eyes, you stole from her, to the meeting where you were going to try and repair your friendship from said event. You then start getting affectionate with said boyfriend, in front of the person he used to go out with, and who, in her eyes you stole from her. And you are now puzzled as to why she seems not to like you?

Now, I don't often use this response with actual feeling, but I feel the situation warrants it. I believe that your friend might put some hold on the theory of Intellectual Osmosis, and so is avoiding being in your presence, in order to retain the intelligence that she has left.

I'm very sorry, but you are, quite blatantly in the wrong here. She made the effort to patch things up, and you decided, through either spite or ignorance, to completely screw it up.