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    I am a member but wanted to post this Anon cos I'm a bit worried I might be hated...
    I have an increasing desire to watch couples having sex. In person I don't mean on screen. I don't know why or where this idea has come from.
    I would appreciate your thoughts.
    Thanks.
    PS: I'm a guy
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    Hey,

    I guess you get a thrill from watching two people experience something intimate and not engaging in the intercourse yourself.

    If there's anything else you'd like to ask, just quote me and I'll try to help you out as soon as possible.
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    Watching 'real people' be sexual is vastly more interesting and satisfying than watching actors do it in porn. The main question is why don't more people want to do it?

    If you're 18+, a variety of places will exist near you which would enable you to do so. Some will be informal - think 'dogging' or cruising sites - and some will typically involve payment - swingers or other sex on the premises clubs. Both have advantages and disadvantages, and both will come with a certain etiquette that needs to be learnt.

    Or get invited to the right sort of party.
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    (Original post by thecatwithnohat)
    Hey,

    I guess you get a thrill from watching two people experience something intimate and not engaging in the intercourse yourself.

    If there's anything else you'd like to ask, just quote me and I'll try to help you out as soon as possible.
    Thanks.
    I'm quite nervous about it. I've never watched but like unprinted suggested I like the idea of watching in real life. Not just porn. So I will do some internet research into this dogging thing.
    Don't get me wrong I don't want a threesome or anything or to get involved. I've just got this thing in my head that it would be very hot to watch quite close up. Don't wanna touch the woman or man tho. I'm a bit of a worrier tho and would be a bit scared that I might get arrested. Eek
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    Well i guess we are all a bit curious. If we weren't then we, that is the human race, wouldn't have learned very much !

    Of course with regard to this question, well there is a difference between thinking and doing. Dont get caught hiding in bushes somewhere or it will not look good on your cv.
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    (Original post by thecatwithnohat)
    Hey,
    If there's anything else you'd like to ask, just quote me and I'll try to help you out as soon as possible.
    Ah, I was hoping the OP would ask "Can I watch you?"
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    I guess it's completely understandable, some people would much rather see the real thing in action rather than watch it on the internet. Unprinted suggested some pretty good ways of going about this, provided your 18 year or older.

    If there's anything else you'd like to ask or want to say, feel free to quote me again!

    (Original post by Davalla)
    Ah, I was hoping the OP would ask "Can I watch you?"
    Haha, that wouldn't be appropriate nor possible, need to get myself a bf first and it's against the rules to ask for this sort of thing mate :rofl:
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    I've never done it, but I do know that the advice you get if you search for 'dogging etiquette' matches the experiences of the people I know who have...
 
 
 
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