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Reply 1
Well to be honest that's kind of like sex, different people like different things.For example I hate tonguing, it's horrible, but some people love it. But gentle and tender is always better than trying to bury into someones head to insert your larvae type kissing. In my experience most women like a bit of the old wondering hand thing, within reason, it's kissing not sexual intercourse :smile:

And remember other areas of the body can be kissed, few girls say someone is a great kisser because of his mouth on mouth action, well unless they're like 12.

The necks a good safe bet for kissing.

I can't imagine anything you could do for someone to say "wow, that guy is an amazing kisser"


Oh and you have no imagination/experience one of the two trust me.
Reply 2
That only really occurs when both parties are truly emotional toward each other.
Reply 3
Sidhe
Well to be honest that's kind of like sex, different people like different things...But gentle and tender is always better than trying to bury into someones head to insert your larvae type kissing. And remember other areas of the body can be kissed, few girls say someone is a great kisser because of his mouth on mouth action, well unless they're like 12.

The necks a good safe bet for kissing.


The neck is a very nice area but possibly left for when you know the person a bit better - unless they dont mind!

I think varying the speed at which you're kissing is nice and I like tounges but dont just shove it in the person's mouth!

hahahaha, "gentle and tender is always better than trying to bury into someones head to insert your larvae type kissing :rofl:
Its hard to say really, different people like different things.
Reply 5
law:portal
That only really occurs when both parties are truly emotional toward each other.



Oooo true point!
mmm... I love my neck being kissed!!

erm *coughs*

Guys and gals like different things, and with different people I have preferred different styles of kissing. Just go with the flow.. I'm sure you'll figure out what your snogging partner is partial to after a short while (and what they dislike!)

A BIG FAT NO to stuffing your tongue to the back of the other person's throat - you risk it being bitten off!!
devils_nose
A BIG FAT NO to stuffing your tongue to the back of the other person's throat - you risk it being bitten off!!


Agree - tht one is the most off putting one and havin a whole mouth cover you entire nose - UGH!!!!!

GD
Variety :smile:
My first kiss was with a guy who didn't have a clue how to kiss.... thus......

4 definite DONT'S to kissing:

DON'T shove your tongue so far into her throat she feels like she's gonna gag.
DON'T Breathe with your MOUTH, breathe through your NOSE.
DON'T slobber all over her face. Take a break and swallow!!!
and finally DON'T cover your whole mouth with your lips. Lips should touch each other's, not swallow each other's.

If you do any of that whilst kissing ME, then I'm afraid you're bound for the one way ticket to dumpsville....
Just relax and do what you FEEL is right. Also if you're worried, follow the lead of the person you are kissing, kinda like dancing...
I always think its best if you start off slow, maybe with a gentle kiss on the lips, and then build it up.
A big NO! to slobbering and shoving tongues down throats (though I suppose there can, very occasionally, be a time and a place for that...).
Use your imagination :smile:
Touch lips, lick, suck, maybe bite, pay attention to what you're doing. Rhythmic but not too repetetive.
The lower lip is most sensitive, btw.
As to where you kiss someone... well... again use your imagination!
Ice-tongue is apparently a good method. Just make plenty of cubes, and top up on the chill with a new one when you're getting a bit warm.

Also, olive oil on the lips helps with ice-tongue.
Reply 14
Best kiss I had was from a friend who did this bizarre sort of rolling thing with her tongue. She was quite forceful in it too. Loved very bloody minute of it.

It must be remembered that I was about 17 at the time, so my memory of the experience probably has some rose-tinting applied.
Dinendal Leralonde
Ice-tongue is apparently a good method. Just make plenty of cubes, and top up on the chill with a new one when you're getting a bit warm.

Also, olive oil on the lips helps with ice-tongue.


John Dorian, is that you?
Reply 16
Chewing is good. You should try that.
sounds painful
Reply 18
As simple as kissing is, there's a lot of different things you can do.

You shouldn't use your tongue on somebody new, unless they do it. sometimes the actual force of the kiss can make a difference, where you put your hands, and what you're actually kissing e.g like bottom lip, briefly.

Also, i like making them kiss me..once you've already started kissing, like i'll let them do the work and sometimes i draw back my lips a tiny bit...then going for them...but some people may think it's weird, it's worked for me though...i see it as a little bit of teasing.
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John Dorian, is that you?


Damn. Found out!
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