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Cheating is such a weird thing, I can't imagine why anyone would have a full blown affair and not tell their other half/break up with them!!

I have no idea of the stats, I'm afraid.. I won't be cheating on my bf though.
Reply 2
Brummyman
What percentage of girls at uni with boyfriends cheat on there boyfriends? Out of this amount, which percentage of girls do you think decide not to tell their boyfriends that they are cheating on them?!



it depends how strong the relationship is, theres no point staying together if your gunna cheat on eachother. and theres something obvioulsy wrong in the relataionship if she does feel the need to cheat.
BUT in my opinion 30%cheat
and 90%dont tell!

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Reply 3
Paranoia much?
Reply 4
Brummyman
What percentage of girls at uni with boyfriends cheat on there boyfriends? Out of this amount, which percentage of girls do you think decide not to tell their boyfriends that they are cheating on them?!


I think more relevant is, why do you care? Are you in a relationship and about to head off to university or something? :confused:
Bit of a generalisation that is, guys cheat as well you know.
Reply 6
It depends what kind of relationship you have.
It's probably the same as how many guys cheat tbh.
Theres no way of generalising I dont think, as its completely down to the relationship.
For example those who have been together for a couple of months before going off to uni and probably more likely to cheat as it isnt necessarily an established relationship with deep feelings (not always the case I know!)

Where as those who may have been together for a number of years before going to uni may be less likely to cheat because they are committed to one another, have plans for the future etc etc.

BUT it does entirely depend on the relationship and the strength of that realtionship not the length of time you have been together.

of those who do cheat I wouldnt have thought that very many would tell ther partner because unless they go to uni very locally there isnt really much chance of them finding out. Id have though it was more likely that they would just end the relationship.
Reply 8
If its meant to be its meant to be, thats what I say girls
Girls are just as BAD as guys when it comes to this. Its not exclusive to men. I know copious girls who are at it like whores. At loads of diff unis up and down the country.
Basically that was my point, both genders are as bad as each other.
There's no stats on this, how are you meant to find it out?
If you're worrying about your girlfriend you either need to learn to trust her, or wonder why you can't trust her.
Reply 12
unknown demon
Girls are just as BAD as guys when it comes to this. Its not exclusive to men. I know copious girls who are at it like whores. At loads of diff unis up and down the country.



This thread is actually about WOMEN cheating.
not men.

No ones slagging men off.
Reply 13
I cheated on my boyfriend - didnt tell him - but have broken up with him now
Reply 14
God knows why people would cheat in the first place...If you're not happy in a relationship, talk about it and then end it but dont hurt the other person by cheating! it's so shallow and disrespectful!

I think there's a lot of temptation at uni, so relationships are often hard. As for stats, there arent any i dont think
Reply 15
People who cheat rather than breaking up are disgusting and worthless, how can humanity evolve if people see the need to whore themselfs off in the name of basic instincts.




........and yes i'm in a talking crap mood
let's face it - we've all done it
purpleone
I cheated on my boyfriend - didnt tell him - but have broken up with him now


Oh, that's okay then.
Brummyman
What percentage of girls at uni with boyfriends cheat on there boyfriends? Out of this amount, which percentage of girls do you think decide not to tell their boyfriends that they are cheating on them?!


I can't speak for others, but I didn't cheat (just to note, I wasn't happy in the relationship). Never even considered it :smile:
It's a sort of que sera sera situation. If she's the type that will cheat, then she might, but if she isn't (if you know her well enough you can gauge this, although they also say you never truly know anyone...hmm...) anyways, if you can talk to her, then tell her you're feeling a bit insecure, and you'll have to trust her if you want to stay together. I will say though, although a lot of people with a partner at uni envisage wild parties and being wasted - which is true, but I know 3 girls here who go out and have a wicked time, but come home to bed on their own, with a photo of their boyfriend there on the bedside to remind her of him. If she loves you, I'm sure she won't.