So there's this guy I talk to in school and I've liked him for a while now. I always found it awkward to talk to him bc I was overthinking and didn't want to set up a bad image etc, so we've not really had proper conversations. Lately I've not been thinking about the feelings as much and we've been talking a lot more, not just about work but out of school things too.
However, he messaged me asking whether one of my friends has a boyfriend(or girlfriend), and he said he was asking for his friend (who I know and speak to a bit). Yeah this is a weird situation because something tells me it's him who may like her, but at the same time he told one of my friends he wasn't looking for anything at the moment. It's confusing because he's been close to me and we've had decent talks, and I think he knows how I feel.
He's a really nice person but I hope he's not trying to get close to me to get to my friend? Because that move is literally the lowest of the low, and especially if he knows how I feel. Again I may be overthinking it and he actually is asking for his friend. Do guys do things like this? Because right now I've already planned my worst scenario for this...
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- Thread Starter
- 10-02-2016 18:20
- 10-02-2016 22:40
I think generally guys don't do things like that.
What's telling you that he's not asking for someone else? You might just be over complicating things, it reasonable that if his friends knew you two spoke that he would get him to ask if your friend was seeing anyone.