I dont know what to do!!!!HELP!

Ok so heres the story!

Ive recently split with my bf of 3 years, just because hes been away at uni and the love faded away. Well for me neway. But he keeps texting me and callin me and sending me e-mails sayin how much he loves me. Which is making me feel really guilty even tho we'd spilt before on his terms.

Ok so not really a big issue. But the thing is ive just started this new job and im in love! Well not in love but crazy about this guy who works there, hes so nice and hot and really ............ manly and he can sing lol The thing is i get excited wen i see him and im so happy when i talk to him. I really get the "ok i really like you" buzz when hes about and i just cant help it! N i was so gutted when i found out hes kinda seeing someone.

Ohh i just dont knw wot 2 do :confused:

Shud i go back to my ex?? Or chase this knew heartthrob??

P.S. The guy that i fancy has been flirting with me. I mean on the first day i asked him if he needed any help with nething and he said "no, just you stand there and look good" :frown:

Maybe im reading the signs wrong tho?

Reply 1

Reue

your ex is at uni... this guy is right there at your work... your love for your ex has faded while the love for this new guy is growing...

Common, dosent take a genius... or should i be more sarcastic to further emphasize the point? :P

Reply 2

NotoriousJatti

Put Your Happiness First .. If Your Ex Decided He Didn't Want 2 Be Wit You .. Why Has He Decided 2 Come Bak Now?

Reply 3

devils_nose

Don't go back to your ex - you said the love had faded away, so what's the point? I don't really see the point in chasing the cute colleague either if he's seeing someone else - that way lies heartache! Flirting is all good.. do some of that.. or maybe discover the joys of being single for a little while?

Reply 4

HeStoleMyCrayon

no, if he's "kinda seeing someone" then there's probably no point. also, don't go back with ur ex. you're obviously not into him anymore so there's no point in it, you'd probs just wanna break up with him again and hurt him. my advice is just enjoy being single for a while! dont rush into the first guy you get a crush on, especially if he's got a gf.

Reply 5

Nix!

sus_clarke

really ............ manly and he can sing lol

^o)

Reply 6

woeful_infatuation

that's not such a dilemma. be single! be happy!! dont think you HAVE to be with someone. you broke up with your ex for a reason so why go back now, you'll just regret it. dont go after someone who's seeing someone. if you absolutely have to, tell him how you feel and if he really likes you too he'll break it off with the other girl. otherwise there's tons of other good guys out there. one (at least) will be right for you!! be happy!!!

Reply 7

shona

You broke up with your ex for a perfectly good reason. Don't go back to him. There's no point.

As for this other guy... if he's seeing someone, you shouldn't chase after him. But the next time you start to develop feelings for someone (who is single and unattached), go for it. Don't let your past relationship make you feel guilty about chasing after happiness with someone new.

Reply 8

username47781

He broke up with you, it seemed you was moving on until he emailed you, I would say don't go back, your ex can't seem to make his mind up.

Concentrate on this new guy, but take it slow.

Reply 9

smellielli

Forget about your EX, its his stupid loss.

Reply 10

Tyler Durden

sus_clarke

Ohh i just dont knw wot 2 do :confused:

Shud i go back to my ex?? Or chase this knew heartthrob??

Question 1: No, don't go back to your ex.

Question 2: Depends on your personal ethics. Does "kinda seeing someone" mean he is in a proper relationship or has he gone for a few drinks with some girl and doinked her once or twice? Either way, some people would say hands off. But that's really a matter for your conscience (and his). It's less of a no-brainer than question 1 anyway.

Oh and "new hearthrob" rather than "knew hearthrob". Hearthrobs don't like people who spell badly (trust me, I'd know :wink: