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    As the title states, what are the signs a girl sees you as just a friend?
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    I care about you as a friend. :laugh:
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    She tries to set your up with someone else
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    When she talks to you about all her problems, girls who see you as a potential bae would keep that **** on locks until she captured you. Hmm just talk to you really you can tell is there any flirting goiing on between you even playful ones? if so she likes you as more than a friend if not then
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    Guy: "Do you want to go to the restaurant with me?"

    Girl: "Sure! I'm calling Vanessa and Beth, that's gonna be fun!"

    Guy:
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    She says no when you ask her out
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    When she talks to you about all her problems, girls who see you as a potential bae would keep that **** on locks until she captured you. Hmm just talk to you really you can tell is there any flirting goiing on between you even playful ones? if so she likes you as more than a friend if not then
    I disagree. When I like a guy I try my best to just be normal. If I know and trust him well enough to talk about my problems I will.
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    Talks to you about the guys that she's seeing
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    "you're like my brother"

    "I wish I could find a guy like you"

    of course, i dont know as i've never got that.
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    (Original post by Rockstar North)
    "you're like my brother"

    "I wish I could find a guy like you"

    of course, i dont know as i've never got that.
    Of course, you've dated 6 girls at the same time, before (optionally) killing one of them in order to rob a casino. We can't all be as successful as you...
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    (Original post by theOldBean)
    Of course, you've dated 6 girls at the same time, before (optionally) killing one of them in order to rob a casino. We can't all be as successful as you...
    http://vignette1.wikia.nocookie.net/...20140926174746
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    (Original post by Josb)
    Guy: "Do you want to go to the restaurant with me?"

    Girl: "Sure! I'm calling Vanessa and Beth, that's gonna be fun!"

    Guy:
    This!! It happened to me so many times
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    She says "why can't all guys be like you?"

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    Well. Girls are really unpredictable. Maybe it is better to be upfront with your feelings than assuming. What you hear is what you get.
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    (Original post by Spock's Socks)
    She says "why can't all guys be like you?"
    Mmm, I said that to a guy I actually liked, but maybe I am just weird like that hah.

    To find out whether or not you are in the friendzone,

    1) Try and organise something for the two of you together. Ask her to go for a coffee in a very casual way. If she makes up excuses, does not rearrange or wants to bring in someone else, then there you have it. If you don't want to be that straightfoward, ask her to go to the library together to get some study done. Just the two of you.

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    2) See the way she texts you. Flirt a little bit without being too obvious, subtly. If she realises that you may like her and she doesn't like you back, she will probably change the subject or reply with the very much feared 'lol' 'haha' and just leave it there. Or even worse. Leave you on seen.

    3) If she talks about the good looks of other guys right in front of you, chances are she probably isn't interested in you that way.

    4) When you are hanging out together, whether it is with a group of friends or alone, try to establish quite a lot of eye contact with her. If she breaks the eye contact, reacts awkwardly etc, chances are you are probably friendzoned. Try to get a little bit physical. When I mean a little bit, I mean a little bit. Make up an excuse to touch her arm, for example. Maybe some hair got stuck in her earrings, ya'know. If she seems awkward or doesn't really smile, chances are she may not like you that way. Beware tho, the girl could just happen to be shy. Make sure you are comfortable with eachother before trying to get a little bit physical.

    All these are subject to the kind of person she is. If she is shy, it could just seem that she isn't interested but actually be. The best thing you can do is ask her out for a coffee sometime and see what she says.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    As the title states, what are the signs a girl sees you as just a friend?
    The friendzone does not exist. It a term coined up by bitter pisswits who think they are entitled to more than they actually are.

    Instead of wondering, why not just ask her out on a date?
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    • 'you're like a brother to me'
    • 'you're one of my best mates'
    • introduces you as a mate
    • tells you issues about another guy she's interested
    • doesnt flirt with you/plays down flirting
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    (Original post by mkap)
    • 'you're like a brother to me'
    • 'you're one of my best mates'
    • introduces you as a mate
    • tells you issues about another guy she's interested
    • doesnt flirt with you/plays down flirting
    How would you "play down flirting"?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How would you "play down flirting"?
    when a guy flirts with a girl and the girl responds with lol or doesnt flirt back
 
 
 
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