What should I do with her..?

Ok so I finally decided to do a post about this...

So me and my gf broke up lately, she wasn't sure what she wanted, and I was jus getting pissed off with her! Lol so yeh we broke up... The next day she apologised for the way she's been actin and said she didn't wanna lose what we got and that... So we kept on talkin and that but we didn't get bk together, I still really liked her btw...

But NOW I've sorta gone off her, she's gone from being someone really special to me to jus like a friend with benefits, and I don't really like it lol. I dunno what to say to her, or what to do... I jus feel that there isn't any point in being with her anymore cos she jus ain't the same... I don't feel like I can trust her anymore (she's lied to me about summin stupid a few times) and she jus don't make the effort to make me happy, even though she always says she likes me and that... =S I'm sooo confused lol

Btw... Thanks for any replies in advance, I know the post is a bit "blah" but you have no idea how confused I am! If I think of anything Ill add it... ;grin;

Reply 1

hannah_dru

2

If you don't realy like her anymore then let it go for a bit. If she still wants to talk to you and you don't, then maybe explain that you need some time alone. Personally, I don't see point in being friends with someone, or being close with someone who you don't connect to anymore.

Reply 2

spacecowgirl89

1

Agree with above^ I think you should try and talk to her but if you really don't like her in that way anymore and have gone off her then just take some time out and have your own space, make that clear to her.

Reply 3

DaChronik

OP

I havent gone off her... I jus dont like her enough to have a relationship with her, I mean Ive spoken to her about it, and shes said shell make an effort. But do u think I should leave it and move on...

(btw shes been saying shell make an effot for a long time now)

Reply 4

Sweet-Euphoria

DaChronik

I havent gone off her... I jus dont like her enough to have a relationship with her, I mean Ive spoken to her about it, and shes said shell make an effort. But do u think I should leave it and move on...

(btw shes been saying shell make an effot for a long time now)

Saying and doing are two very different things. I'd move on. There are plently more people out there. And it feels bloody fantastic to be single.

Reply 5

DaChronik

OP

Lol actually I should mention this, she does seem to think that I am not bothered with her jus cos I am doin the above, jus I dont really see any of them as potential relationship material. Oh and with more than one, Ive never had a shortage of other people, and I think this makes her think I aint bothered with her... :s:

Reply 6

hannah_dru

2

DaChronik

I havent gone off her... I jus dont like her enough to have a relationship with her, I mean Ive spoken to her about it, and shes said shell make an effort. But do u think I should leave it and move on...

(btw shes been saying shell make an effot for a long time now)

Move on. As I've recently learnt, people might say things, but whether or not they'll do them is a completely different matter. You're obviously not very happy because she hasn't made an effort, and I think even if you keep trying at it, she'll never change.
Move on :smile:

Reply 7

DaChronik

OP

Aight guys... I think thats done me, so which of yall are interested? :wink:

lol

I mean I still intend to keep contact cos Im like her best friend, so ya know... Thats cool tho yeh?

Reply 8

username47781

20

If you have gone off her simply then it was best to break up with her.

Reply 9

DaChronik

OP

lessthanthree

i think it's completely unrealistic to be best friends right away.

Ermmm well not for me... See I do wanna be with her... Jus she needs to get her act together...

Like we was jus checkin each others phones, cos we were bored... Well she went through mine n I was like "hollddddd upppp! my turn!" anyway so I found she had been textin someone, so all gud yh... But she was like to me... "Ive known him for a month!" so I wasnt expectin anything major... N the texts were like "good nite sexc, im thinkin bout u babe :wink:

mwah x x x!"

I kno tht aint meana bother me... But when shes sayin she wants to be with me... But is doin **** like tht... It makes me double think...

Reply 10

DaChronik

OP

It's my life

If you have gone off her simply then it was best to break up with her.

We aint together... I broke up with her cos I was going off her...

What should I do with her..?

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