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    During the last nine months I've been crushing on the wrong people. It's been four guys so far. The first one was engaged. The second one had a girlfriend. The third one was single but had just come out from a long term relationship and wasn't emotionally available, and the fourth one turned out to be gay. I always find out this very important information after I've been crushing on them for a while.

    I don't know exactly what is it that I am looking for by posting this... I think it's just a mixture of annoyance, a little bit of sadness and laugher at the same time because, well, when I think about it it's quite funny too.

    Has this happened to you before? I know that it's not uncommon to like someone and then find out that they aren't available for whatever the reason... it's just the fact that it's happened four times in a row that makes me go :facepalm:
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    you'll find the right person, you just have to keep looking
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    sounds like a weird book title
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    Atleast you've narrowed it down now, right?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    During the last nine months I've been crushing on the wrong people. It's been four guys so far. The first one was engaged. The second one had a girlfriend. The third one was single but had just come out from a long term relationship and wasn't emotionally available, and the fourth one turned out to be gay. I always find out this very important information after I've been crushing on them for a while.

    I don't know exactly what is it that I am looking for by posting this... I think it's just a mixture of annoyance, a little bit of sadness and laugher at the same time because, well, when I think about it it's quite funny too.

    Has this happened to you before? I know that it's not uncommon to like someone and then find out that they aren't available for whatever the reason... it's just the fact that it's happened four times in a row that makes me go :facepalm:
    I've been single for 20 years so I've had many encounters with those sorts of guys :cry: :lol: it's funny and sad at the same time haha
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    You just looked at the wrong places. Just wait, you will find the perfect guy for you. All you need is the patience.
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    You should write a soppy novel, could be the next Bridget Jones' Diary
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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    sounds like a weird book title
    Or a pretty awful film.
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    Some women do marry gay guys.

    They are more fun.

    Open marriage with a gay guy is worth considering.
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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    sounds like a weird book title

    Write it.

    Make it yours.
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    Confidence in speaking with you, maybe?

    Guys who are secured in a relationship, I would think, have more natural confidence than those who are single.

    And gay guys feel little pressure in speaking with you, as opposed to those too concerned with making a bad impression on you.
 
 
 
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