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    Hi
    im really confused and idk what to do
    I love him, he means the world to me. But a part of me just wants to lose him and move on.
    i haven't told my parents , but i want to, im not the type to hide things from them. Im just fearfull of a reaction that i will get. i know my parents will freak out.
    Im a proud Indian lol, love my culture etc, im not stereotypical and i respect all religions and cultures and have a lot of insight and knowledge on them too.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi
    im really confused and idk what to do
    I love him, he means the world to me. But a part of me just wants to lose him and move on.
    i haven't told my parents , but i want to, im not the type to hide things from them. Im just fearfull of a reaction that i will get. i know my parents will freak out.
    Im a proud Indian lol, love my culture etc, im not stereotypical and i respect all religions and cultures and have a lot of insight and knowledge on them too.

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    India VS Pakistan
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    Maybe wait a bit longer and see how things work out between you two. And then tell your parents?
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    (Original post by fatima1998)
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    haha i guess
    but his family are originally from India on his mothers side
    he hates Pakistan lol him and his family love India and hate Pakistan, and the culture associated with it lol
    so no , no India v Pakistan
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    (Original post by JubilationXXV)
    Maybe wait a bit longer and see how things work out between you two. And then tell your parents?
    Yeah maybe , thats what he wants to . Just go with the flow and if it deepens its right. Its just the communication is limited

    But thank you for your advice/ suggestion
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    haha i guess
    but his family are originally from India on his mothers side
    he hates Pakistan lol him and his family love India and hate Pakistan, and the culture associated with it lol
    so no , no India v Pakistan
    aha...
    then do it and tell your parents

    but u r quite young so maybe wait for a bit and see how it goes
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    He probably feels the same way.
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    Maybe you feel that the age difference is too much?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi
    im really confused and idk what to do
    I love him, he means the world to me. But a part of me just wants to lose him and move on.
    i haven't told my parents , but i want to, im not the type to hide things from them. Im just fearfull of a reaction that i will get. i know my parents will freak out.
    Im a proud Indian lol, love my culture etc, im not stereotypical and i respect all religions and cultures and have a lot of insight and knowledge on them too.

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    He's kinda old. Im 17 too I couldn't imagine going out with a 22 year old
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    What does he think about you two?
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    I'm sure you're a perfect (cricket) match for him.
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    (Original post by Shiv is Light)
    He's kinda old. Im 17 too I couldn't imagine going out with a 22 year old
    naah...
    i think the age difference is fine
    i know in today's world people think he is a paedophile or something
    but my mum and dad has 6 yrs of age difference
    it's pretty normal in Asian families
    Don't you think that too??
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    unlucky m8
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    (Original post by BrokenLife)
    Aww lol :hugs:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi
    im really confused and idk what to do
    I love him, he means the world to me. But a part of me just wants to lose him and move on.
    i haven't told my parents , but i want to, im not the type to hide things from them. Im just fearfull of a reaction that i will get. i know my parents will freak out.
    Im a proud Indian lol, love my culture etc, im not stereotypical and i respect all religions and cultures and have a lot of insight and knowledge on them too.

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    Why is it that you want to lose him and move on?
    What does your gut say, is this a nice guy or do you feel weird vibes?
    And your parents will not accept it, mostly for the reason, if it got further they don't want you to convert to Islam and follow a lifestyle different to the one you were brought up with.
    But honestly honey, you don't need a boyfriend so young, this relation sounds like it's giving you stress, and that's not right at 17.
    Focus on your A-Levels and be happy
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    (Original post by Shiv is Light)
    He's kinda old. Im 17 too I couldn't imagine going out with a 22 year old
    she's 17 and he's 22
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    (Original post by fatima1998)
    naah...
    i think the age difference is fine
    i know in today's world people think he is a paedophile or something
    but my mum and dad has 6 yrs of age difference
    it's pretty normal in Asian families
    Don't you think that too??
    Yeah but your parents are both above 18. Seems the relationship is kinda one sided.
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    Whats your relationship like with your father / male figures in your life?
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    (Original post by mkap)
    she's 17 and he's 22
    I've noticed m8
 
 
 
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