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    I know it's different for each person but I just wanna get an idea for my first time
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    Not too much
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    Not at all. I think if you've used tampons before and then don't just immediately go for sex straight away (build up to it through fingering) you shouldn't bleed? Or only a little bit.
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    Still a virgin, but you're not supposed to bleed. Most of the cases where they've bled is because they're not wet enough.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Not at all. I think if you've used tampons before and then don't just immediately go for sex straight away (build up to it through fingering) you shouldn't bleed? Or only a little bit.
    Thanks
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    My friend bled a river though as her partner was quite girthy and she was extremely tight. Not a good combo
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    My friend bled a river though as her partner was quite girthy and she was extremely tight. Not a good combo
    I'm really tight and he's quite 'girthy'
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm really tight and he's quite 'girthy'
    Oh dear, stretch yourself out until he can fit as many fingers as the girth of his penis. And make sure you're plenty wet with lots of lubrication.
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    Oh dear, stretch yourself out until he can fit as many fingers as the girth of his penis. Fist, if required. And make sure you're plenty wet with lots of lubrication.
    Oh god...the idea of a fist going up there does not sound ideal...ah I'm scared now
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    Curiousity is said to have killed the cat. In this instance, I died.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Oh god...the idea of a fist going up there does not sound ideal...ah I'm scared now
    Don't be scared. That's another thing, girls are usually really tense during their first time making it hurt, you need to be relaxed
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    (Original post by Tinemither)
    Curiousity is said to have killed the cat. In this instance, I died.
    Hahahaha
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    Don't be scared. That's another thing, girls are usually really tense during their first time making it hurt, you need to be relaxed
    Thank you for your help. Do you know if guys can tell if you're a virgin? Like can they feel your hymen breaking?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thank you for your help. Do you know if guys can tell if you're a virgin? Like can they feel your hymen breaking?
    The hymen doesn't break, it stretches. But yes they can feel the tightness of a virgin
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    My friend bled a river though as her partner was quite girthy and she was extremely tight. Not a good combo
    :argh:
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    Is this thread serious? Please google some sex education advice. Do not 'stretch yourself'. If your partner is gentle and you are relaxed and not tense, I doubt that there will be any bleeding, certainly not a noticeable amount.
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    The hymen doesn't break, it stretches. But yes they can feel the tightness of a virgin
    What if you just have a really tight vagina? Because that's what he thinks I have
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    (Original post by TheGreatImposter)
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    Yeah, poor thing told me it was everywhere, like a crime scene. I told her to stretch out but she said even half of one finger hurt, so she didn't.
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    (Original post by CCC75)
    Is this thread serious? Please google some sex education advice. Do not 'stretch yourself'. If your partner is gentle and you are relaxed and not tense, I doubt that there will be any bleeding, certainly not a noticeable amount.
    Haha yeah I wasn't going to stretch myself. I just don't want to bleed so much...however he is really big in girth and length so I was just a bit concerned
 
 
 
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