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    So my ex and I met up recently. I'm still really into her and probably came on a little too strong. Nonetheless, she seemed to be feeling nostalgic and we ended up having sex in her car. The next day she starts messaging me saying how confused she is, but imediately saying she doesn't want to resume a relationship (not that I had suggested it).

    Over the next few days we messaged a lot (her instigating for the most part) and the conversation began to turn sexual. A few nights after sleeping together, I suggested that we meet up again and she seemed relatively open to it saying "hit me with your ideas". Since she had already stated that she wasn't interested in getting back into a relationship, and the highly sexual nature of the chat, I basically suggested that we meet up that evening with a view to sleeping with one another. Don't get me wrong, nothing would have made me happier than to take her on a date, regardless of whether sex happened, but she had already stated that she wasn't interested in that.

    Following my suggestion, she responded with "I actually don't think it's a good idea. Besides, I'm already in bed (her parents house), and naked". I don't think this was meant in a suggestive way, but it seems weird that she seemed initially open to the idea of meeting up, only to (1 minute later) say that she had already turned in (it was about 12am in fairness). Worried that I had offended her or some such, I tried to steer the conversation away from the sexual, but she insisted upon essentially sexting, before stating how turned on she was by it all. So I assume she wasn't offended?

    Just wondering whether, had I said something along the lines of "how's about a walk on the beach?", things might have turned out differently? Or was she just playing with it all? FYI, she continued to message me for a few days afterwards, before eventually stopping and inviting the guy she had been on/off seeing prior to these events to stay with her.

    Why did she say she was naked? Sounds very suggestive
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