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    Every girl i know see's me as a brother like damn. Can you not brother zone me like it's kinda deep?
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    (Original post by ACockyDreamer)
    Every girl i know see's me as a brother like damn. Can you not brother zone me like it's kinda deep?
    I feel the same but I get put in the sister-zone I made this thread: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=3897083

    I think for me it's that I look young and have no sex appeal so guys make me into their little sister figure

    Do you look young or act childish? Do you listen to all the girls problems? Do you protect them from stuff, almost like a brother? I think if you can figure out why they do it then you can make steps to change it, if you wish.
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    well...
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    maybe because of your name
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I feel the same but I get put in the sister-zone I made this thread: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=3897083

    I think for me it's that I look young and have no sex appeal so guys make me into their little sister figure

    Do you look young or act childish? Do you listen to all the girls problems? Do you protect them from stuff, almost like a brother? I think if you can figure out why they do it then you can make steps to change it, if you wish.
    Most of the guys turn girls into sister figures if they confide in them and don't want to ruin their friendhshipp..

    idk, i am 6'1 and built... i guess my protective nature... and i guess i am genuinely nice to people ... this maybe a reason...
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    (Original post by ACockyDreamer)
    Most of the guys turn girls into sister figures if they confide in them and don't want to ruin their friendhshipp..

    idk, i am 6'1 and built... i guess my protective nature... and i guess i am genuinely nice to people ... this maybe a reason...
    Well it sounds for you like it's more of a personality thing than a looks thing. I don't think you should change your personality but reserve you protective nature for women you have been dating for sometime perhaps. There's nothing wrong with being 'nice' but really people should sometimes earn your niceness because otherwise you can get used or turned into a doormat. Maybe just inject a little cheekiness or even cockiness (lol) in sometimes.

    For me, I read somewhere that pure niceness isn't really attractive or exciting, unfortunately. Im a very 'nice', 'sweet as sugar' girl but to be honest I'm done with it most people prefer people who have an aloof, selfish, histrionic and dramatic side (aka bad girls and guys) as it evokes emotion and excitement in people and draws them closer. No more nice girl
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    (Original post by fatima1998)
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    maybe because of your name
    whats wrong with a name phst ;D completely defines my life... esp alevels
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well it sounds for you like it's more of a personality thing than a looks thing. I don't think you should change your personality but reserve you protective nature for women you have been dating for sometime perhaps. There's nothing wrong with being 'nice' but really people should sometimes earn your niceness because otherwise you can get used or turned into a doormat. Maybe just inject a little cheekiness or even cockiness (lol) in sometimes.

    For me, I read somewhere that pure niceness isn't really attractive or exciting, unfortunately. Im a very 'nice', 'sweet as sugar' girl but to be honest I'm done with it most people prefer people who have an aloof, selfish, histrionic and dramatic side (aka bad girls and guys) as it evokes emotion and excitement in people and draws them closer. No more nice girl
    aahh never change for someone else.... and ayy i am cockyy enoughh haha ;D hence the name
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    (Original post by ACockyDreamer)
    Every girl i know see's me as a brother like damn. Can you not brother zone me like it's kinda deep?
    lmao I thought you meant brother as in black dude.
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    (Original post by ACockyDreamer)
    whats wrong with a name phst ;D completely defines my life... esp alevels
    defines your life
    okay...
    but girls just not a big fan of these guys that have silly names
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    (Original post by fatima1998)
    defines your life
    okay...
    but girls just not a big fan of these guys that have silly names
    ahh fair play.. its all bantss and it's not silly.. i find it amusing ;S but you're entitled to an opinion
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    Cus your being a brother? If you calmly whispered in their ears 'I want to **** you' they might get the message
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    It's not a good sign... lol. well depends how you take it / what you're looking for
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    (Original post by ACockyDreamer)
    ahh fair play.. its all bantss and it's not silly.. i find it amusing ;S but you're entitled to an opinion
    fair enough
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Cus your being a brother? If you calmly whispered in their ears 'I want to **** you' they might get the message
    well being nice = being a brother haha but yeah your idea is kinda sick haha probably get slapped but worth a try ;D
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    (Original post by ACockyDreamer)
    well being nice = being a brother haha but yeah your idea is kinda sick haha probably get slapped but worth a try ;D
    No being nice does not mean being a brother, you give off brother vibes. And don't you dare do what I just said to a girl who doesn't look interested, if she's even a tad interested she won't slap you, and even if she says no she'll know who to go to in the future.
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    (Original post by whorace)
    No being nice does not mean being a brother, you give off brother vibes. And don't you dare do what I just said to a girl who doesn't look interested, if she's even a tad interested she won't slap you, and even if she says no she'll know who to go to in the future.
    i don't even know what brother vibes are :/ && I'm joking lool and ayy you're an optimistic human being
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    (Original post by mango peeler)
    lmao I thought you meant brother as in black dude.
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    (Original post by ACockyDreamer)
    i don't even know what brother vibes are :/ && I'm joking lool and ayy you're an optimistic human being
    Even if you aren't some guys seem to believe they will get slapped if they do it, they probably will if they are talking to someone incredibly rude or a stranger who has no interest in them, or their breath stinks, otherwise it's fair game.

    Brother vibes you are probably too passive and open.

    And as for optimism: I am an optimist, I don't see what use there is in being anything else (Maybe said by Winston Churchill no source though)
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Even if you aren't some guys seem to believe they will get slapped if they do it, they probably will if they are talking to someone incredibly rude or a stranger who has no interest in them, or their breath stinks, otherwise it's fair game.

    Brother vibes you are probably too passive and open.

    And as for optimism: I am an optimist, I don't see what use there is in being anything else (Maybe said by Winston Churchill no source though)
    interesting never thought about passiveness hmm andd ayy i prefer being a capitalist with hint of realist ;D muchh funn xD
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    (Original post by Rockstar North)
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    you are so ****ing stupid lemme alone :toofunny:
 
 
 
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