Shyness on both parts...

Cheekymonkey26

hi

Reply 1

britishseapower

14

I was like that with my first girlfriend, in the end she just made the move herself. I'm not really a touchy feely person and I was alot shyer back then plus it was my first girlfriend so that just culminated in me not doing anything. She was shy too but she still made the move.

Reply 2

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3

Its fairly simple, stand close to him and say goodnight, when he says it back look into his eyes, hold his eye contact and then move in for a kiss. Sorted.

Reply 3

britishseapower

14

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Its fairly simple, stand close to him and say goodnight, when he says it back look into his eyes, hold his eye contact and then move in for a kiss. Sorted.

if he recoils in horror, just say I was gonna whisper something to you

Reply 4

Citation

It's scary stuff. I don't know of a single person on this forum who would say otherwise...(actually I could name one.) Just pluck up that courage and make the move.

It's too early in life to think to yourself "what if" because you'll wake up one morning in a decades time and think exactly the same...maybe for the wrong reasons. Enjoy yourself ^_^

Good luck and all the best!

Reply 5

Saffie

11

i find that strange, but then thinking about it, i've made the first move a few times..

My really 'bad' advice is to get tipsey? It must be harder now you're into this routine of no-contact, so seems a good idea.

Or just bite the bullet and grab his hand when you're walking with him...

Reply 6

Sweet-Euphoria

I agree with Safie. Have a couple of drinks, it will ease the nerves.

Reply 7

adamwilkinson

You've gone out enough times now, at the end of your next date kiss him - not a full on tongue bath but a nice firm but gental kiss on lips, make it last a couple of seconds. Those kinds of kisses I find more personal, like you want to be with him, then a tongue down the throat.

Hope that makes sense?!

Reply 8

adamwilkinson

No need to feel daft, like Xopa says, it happens to everyone.
Good luck

Reply 9

Paperfolders57

move towards each other then , try for a kiss see both want to kiss!

Reply 10

Reue

20

Get Drunk.

No, seriously.

(Incomming waves of neg rep)

Honestly, in a situation like this where both parties are clearly interested but shy, getting drunk together and leading to other things is good! Just remember to drink responably!

Shyness on both parts...

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