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have been with ma boyfriend jst ovr 2 months and i realli dont knw where i stand anymore. i knw he likes me but i worry that i like him so much more than he likes me. although he talks about this being serious, inviting me to his best mates wedding, planning to come up and visit me when i move away to uni in sept, even taking drivigng leasons so he can do that and also he tell me that he realli likes me. but we took the relationship further and now im worried that mabey it wasnt the rte time. ( not that im regreting it or anything) but how do i mention all this to him?? we usually have a pretty open relationship and i cn talk to him bout anything thats the beauty of it all. but i dont knw for some reasson i cnt find the words to tell him this. is this a bad sign?!?
I know that sometimes it's difficult to find the right time, and the right words to use when bringing up a subject like this but sometimes you just have to go for it if it means you finding out where you stand. If you have all these concerns then you need to speak to him no matter how difficult it is, you don't want this playing on your mind all the time. Sit him down and ask him about it, ask him everything that you would like some answers to. Keep it friendly, try not to make it confrontational as he might feel a bit threatened by it. Just ask him generally how he is feeling about the relationship and such.
Honestly, the sooner you two sit down and talk, the better you will feel. It's not nice having all these things going through your head all the time, and nobody but him will be able to answer your questions. You say that you two have a good relationship, one in which you two can talk, if that's the case go for it and i'm sure he'll understand. Try not to worry so much, he wouldn't go to all that effort if you didn't mean something to him. Hopefully when you two talk, you will feel a lot better
Honestly, the sooner you two sit down and talk, the better you will feel. It's not nice having all these things going through your head all the time, and nobody but him will be able to answer your questions. You say that you two have a good relationship, one in which you two can talk, if that's the case go for it and i'm sure he'll understand. Try not to worry so much, he wouldn't go to all that effort if you didn't mean something to him. Hopefully when you two talk, you will feel a lot better
Louise88
I know that sometimes it's difficult to find the right time, and the right words to use when bringing up a subject like this but sometimes you just have to go for it if it means you finding out where you stand. If you have all these concerns then you need to speak to him no matter how difficult it is, you don't want this playing on your mind all the time. Sit him down and ask him about it, ask him everything that you would like some answers to. Keep it friendly, try not to make it confrontational as he might feel a bit threatened by it. Just ask him generally how he is feeling about the relationship and such.
Honestly, the sooner you two sit down and talk, the better you will feel. It's not nice having all these things going through your head all the time, and nobody but him will be able to answer your questions. You say that you two have a good relationship, one in which you two can talk, if that's the case go for it and i'm sure he'll understand. Try not to worry so much, he wouldn't go to all that effort if you didn't mean something to him. Hopefully when you two talk, you will feel a lot better
Honestly, the sooner you two sit down and talk, the better you will feel. It's not nice having all these things going through your head all the time, and nobody but him will be able to answer your questions. You say that you two have a good relationship, one in which you two can talk, if that's the case go for it and i'm sure he'll understand. Try not to worry so much, he wouldn't go to all that effort if you didn't mean something to him. Hopefully when you two talk, you will feel a lot better
thanx. i dunno jst i dont wanna loose him for being paranoid. ano i should speak to him , its nvr been a prob before. also i worry that now we have slept together he's gonna fade outta the pic. i dont even knw why this is worrying me as he aint tht kinda guy but i stl cnt stop it being in ma head. its always been a fear of mines that i get close to someone and i end up getting hurt. but ive been re-assured so many times by him that he wont hurt me. is it me or am i jst sounding like a lil girl?!?
Everyone gets paranoid at some point, it's natural so don't worry about it.
You've said that he isn't that kind of guy, if he is the kind of guy that you think he is then you shouldn't have any problems. Try to put your paranoia aside and look at it for what it is, look at your relationship and look at how good it is. He is doing so much for you, he wouldn't just let things go after you two have slept together, and you two can talk to each other. He sounds like a good guy, just speak to him.
Everyone is scared of being hurt or losing someone that they care about, it's natural. Remember that this guy is with you for a reason, and if things don't work out then it's not the end of the world. You'll pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on. You're more likely to lose him because you are keeping things from him rather from you being a little bit paranoid.
You aren't sounding like a little girl, everyone has been there, done that and bought the t-shirt. It happens to everyone at some point during their life, probably more than once. If this guy is willing to end things because of this, then he isn't the guy you think he is and he doesn't deserve you.
You've said that he isn't that kind of guy, if he is the kind of guy that you think he is then you shouldn't have any problems. Try to put your paranoia aside and look at it for what it is, look at your relationship and look at how good it is. He is doing so much for you, he wouldn't just let things go after you two have slept together, and you two can talk to each other. He sounds like a good guy, just speak to him.
Everyone is scared of being hurt or losing someone that they care about, it's natural. Remember that this guy is with you for a reason, and if things don't work out then it's not the end of the world. You'll pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on. You're more likely to lose him because you are keeping things from him rather from you being a little bit paranoid.
You aren't sounding like a little girl, everyone has been there, done that and bought the t-shirt. It happens to everyone at some point during their life, probably more than once. If this guy is willing to end things because of this, then he isn't the guy you think he is and he doesn't deserve you.
Dont do it by text/email/msn etc! Wires can get crossed and you cant express yourself properly in writing. If you cant do it face to face then only other option is by phone.
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adamwilkinson
Dont do it by text/email/msn etc! Wires can get crossed and you cant express yourself properly in writing. If you cant do it face to face then only other option is by phone.
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nah honestly i wouldnt do it by txt or email or msn. we have a vry gd way of being able to share thngs in persona nd on the phone. ano hw wires cn get crossed.
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