How can I fancy people my own age?

Ever since I was like 12 Ive never fancied males apart from a few in there 30's 40's or 50's like teachers etc. Lads my own age have always ignored me but the older ones don't, this is obviously not because they fancy me but because they have to talk with being teachers etc lol, but I think this has contributed to why I like older males, Ive always thought they are nicer and not as ignorant as people my own age. Ive never acted on this though obviously always kept it to myself and am still a virgin at 22 lol which im embarrased about. Id never marry anyone that was over about 5 years older though as it would be horrible being with old men but how come Ive never liked guys my own age? (apart from a 26 year old teacher) :confused:

Reply 1

Mernard

Perhaps people your age that you knew were just arseholes from an early age. Obviously this will stick in your mind, maybe at a subconscious level. Perhaps, not to make this sound rude or something, you should go out and socialise with people your own age and that share similar interests. Perhaps join a club at your uni or somesort? Then again, some people just prefer older partners, haha.

Reply 2

Operate Peaches

I dont think you can change who you are attracted to! Ha maybe look for mature people your own age.

Reply 3

alio~

OP

9

Mernard

Perhaps people your age that you knew were just arseholes from an early age. Obviously this will stick in your mind, maybe at a subconscious level. Perhaps, not to make this sound rude or something, you should go out and socialise with people your own age and that share similar interests. Perhaps join a club at your uni or somesort? Then again, some people just prefer older partners, haha.

I should get out more but guys really are not interested in me lol, maybe cause I look younger than 16 who knows but I'l just see what happens :rolleyes:

I don't know if its the older factor that I like it seems to be the authority :confused:

Reply 4

WokSz

17

It's normal for a girl to think guys older than them are more attractive. They've been through what guys you're age are going through, and learn from their mistakes whereas the guys you age are still committing them.

How can I fancy people my own age?

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