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    Whenever i have intimate time with my partner (who is a girl) she says after a while when I'm touching her down there.. that she cant handle it and makes me stop before she cums. Is this normal ?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Whenever i have intimate time with my partner (who is a girl) she says after a while when I'm touching her down there.. that she cant handle it and makes me stop before she cums. Is this normal ?
    ye no? yes? no? i dunno.
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    It's just something girls do. They say things like that to basically encourage you to do it more I guess? Or maybe it's something else idk,
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    so she's telling you "no don't do that it's making me orgasm"?
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    Nothing is abnormal about it. when things feel really good it can be paralyzing and overwhelming.

    Make sure she's not telling you to stop because you're hurting her or not doing it right, sometimes girls feel like they have to lie so that they don't hurt your feelings.
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    Nothing is abnormal about it. when things feel really good it can be paralyzing and overwhelming.

    Make sure she's not telling you to stop because you're hurting her or not doing it right, sometimes girls feel like they have to lie so that they don't hurt your feelings.
    I've asked her and she's told me honestly that the feeling gets too intense for her that she can't let me carry on, so she says to stop ? but surely you would want to *** no?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've asked her and she's told me honestly that the feeling gets too intense for her that she can't let me carry on, so she says to stop ? but surely you would want to *** no?
    Hell ya
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    I've asked her and she's told me honestly that the feeling gets too intense for her that she can't let me carry on, so she says to stop ? but surely you would want to *** no?
    Maybe you're touching her "sensitive area" too directly. Try indirectly stimulating it with the hood, or going more gentle and slow. Maybe you've learnt from porn to go hard and fast, and this is where it gets too much!!

    If not, then it's an issue on her end and you could ask her about it.
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    It's most likely because you're focussing on the sensitive area, as the above poster mentioned.
    Work with your girlfriend on this, try different techniques and find out what feels good without it being uncomfortable. You'll get past it don't worry
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    The feeling is pretty intense, don't take it personally. It's just a natural response. Let her take some time, and it will all be good.
 
 
 
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