So I have been with her for a year now and I'm not sure if I want to be with her for any longer.
Whenever we have a normal chat, she occasionally makes comments such as "I'd have sex with ****" usually being celebrities but sometimes guys she's friends with or even MY friends.
I always make it obvious that I'm not interested in her comments by changing the topic directly or just laughing a little without much.
However, every time she makes these comments, she says "but I love you" or "but you're hotter" which is obviously just said so that I don't take anything she says seriously but I'm finding it incredibly annoying.
What should I do?
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Dump her
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Say you want to have sex with her friends.
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I don't know....maybe talk to her?
A relationship is nothing without communication and honesty, for all the she knows she may think you see it as just a joke and has no idea it's bothering you. -
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Honestly, just talk to her about it. I don't necessarily think it's too bad that she says it about celebrities, but it does seem a little too far that she'll say it about friends. It could all be harmless and all talk, but if you have concerns and believe she is capable of cheating, tell her you're feeling this way! Trust is very important in a relationship.
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So I have been with her for a year now and I'm not sure if I want to be with her for any longer.
Whenever we have a normal chat, she occasionally makes comments such as "I'd have sex with ****" usually being celebrities but sometimes guys she's friends with or even MY friends.
I always make it obvious that I'm not interested in her comments by changing the topic directly or just laughing a little without much.
However, every time she makes these comments, she says "but I love you" or "but you're hotter" which is obviously just said so that I don't take anything she says seriously but I'm finding it incredibly annoying.
What should I do?
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Dump her lol
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Put the shoe on her foot and see how it feels. Make it closer to home, though, like her friends or relatives, just to make a point
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I don't think you're making it very obvious. You're not telling her that her comments piss you off. Why don't you try saying who you would have sex with? Maybe she would change her tune then.
I'd tell her to knock it off.
And if she keeps going on about it, about who she would have sex with, I'd dump her. Perhaps that's just me personally though; I wouldn't want to be with someone who keeps making comments about who she'd like to ****. -
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You are not alpha enough.
No girl would ever dare say that to an alpha.
If you were hot enough you could be having a threesome with her sister and her best friend, she wouldn't dream of pulling that **** on you, she needs to learn a lesson. -
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Say you want to have sex with her friends.
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Put the shoe on her foot and see how it feels. Make it closer to home, though, like her friends or relatives, just to make a point -
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I have been with her for a year now and I'm not sure if I want to be with her for any longer.
Whenever we have a normal chat, she occasionally makes comments such as "I'd have sex with ****" usually being celebrities but sometimes guys she's friends with or even MY friends.
I always make it obvious that I'm not interested in her comments by changing the topic directly or just laughing a little without much.
However, every time she makes these comments, she says "but I love you" or "but you're hotter" which is obviously just said so that I don't take anything she says seriously but I'm finding it incredibly annoying.
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**** her sister, then give her a bit of 'do what youre told' 💪
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Have sex with those other guys yourself so that she'll be put off by them
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Maybe she just thinks it's banter. Tell her it's a bit much. Either that or draw a line under it.
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that's a bit peak
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Exactly.
If you were hot enough you could be having a threesome with her sister and her best friend, she wouldn't dream of pulling that **** on you, she needs to learn a lesson.
They show me videos of them making their boyfriends do their hair, tie shoelaces, kicking their boyfriends when he is sleeping. Telling him she find other guys attractive, she would have sex with other guys.
Seen it all too often, then i ask for a picture of their boyfriend, and not to be mean they are little pussies that are too nice and take **** from women. They do get laid though.
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