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16 / nearly 17 year old dating 20 year old? UK? watch

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    Hey.

    Just thinking alot lately , Met this girl a few months ago , started speaking a lot ( wasn't aware of her age , thought she was around 18) and i actually really enjoyed speaking to her.it was only after a while i asked how old she was because i seen something that made me wonder. She is 16, going on 17 in a few months ( She has a job/college etc) .I didn't know what to feel after i found out as im 20, 21 near the end of the year (after she is 17) and i've always dated people either 1 year below me or above my age so this is completely unlike me . She is mature , acts older than she is and like i said she seems around 18/19 or older personality wise. I'm in a 50/50 situation here as i don't know what to do or feel anymore. Her mom knows about me and my age and isn't phased by it as apparently i'm a really nice lad etc but whats your take on this? Btw i live in the UK
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    I think it's fine...I think the age gap may seem weird now because she's a teenager but a few years from now no one would think twice about a 4 year age gap. I'm dating a guy who's fives years older than me. I'm 18 and he's 23. And no on really cares to be honest.
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    age is a number
    an its not that big of a difference
    if you like her how she is and she likes you back then there's nothing wrong
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    I personally don't think it's a problem but other people might think so. My friend is like 17 and her boyfriend is like 20/21 and everyone knows, but nobody cares. He takes really good care of her anyways, that's all that matters
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    It's legal, you're fine

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    She's above 15 so its fine.
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    (Original post by Andy98)
    It's legal, you're fine

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    This ^^


    I'd be happy shagging a 16-year-old when I'm 50 tbh.
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    This ^^


    I'd be happy shagging a 16-year-old when I'm 50 tbh.
    Long as it ain't my kid

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