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    Tuesday this week this boy told me he liked me and pretty much he would want to be with me.

    Here's where it gets complicated: he was seeing a girl, but she got deported and had to move back to america and now she has been there for a month and has told me he would like to give me and him a go because he's only 20 and pretty much in a matter of words that it's a waste of time because they're so far apart and she's not coming back. We met in september, and he met me and her at the same time, however she was more forward pretty much so they happened.

    They were together for a month and a half.

    Since Tuesday we haven't seen each other, but he has text me everyday keeping me updated as to whether he's spoken to her, and the most recent text says :
    "hey still haven't spoken to her yet. I need to do that before i see you or it wouldn't be right"

    I'm just waiting now pretty much, i don't want to be stupid, should i wait for him? maybe he's just going to change his mind? I don't know, just need some advice...
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    I'd be kind of insulted to be perfectly honest, surely he should be going out with you because he likes you not because he can't make it work with someone else, you deserve better imo, but it's up to you
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    Doesn't sound like he'd wait for the other girl, so why should you wait for him? It's up to you, he shouldn't leave you hanging just because he hasn't finished things off with her properly though.
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    Ain't got time for anyone to clean up their act, time is fleeting
 
 
 
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