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One toxic freind cost me all my freinds Watch

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    I hang with same grp of guys since young. Though we dont physically meet often these days we always chat online and play video games with chat etc.

    About 5-6 regular. Always at least 4 of us most night for last year or so. We have a good laugh and it consists most my social life or when in house.

    However, one of the guys imo due to jealousy but whatever reasons irrelvant has been horrible to me for 6-12 months. Not just online but in person. A guy I known since 12. Yeh i know his life went opposite to me and i in better position but so what. Thats all i can think of is his problem.

    Online in chat hed just try to mock me constantly in front of others and even when new guys came in chat he would do same and get them to copy him. Even as far as saying lets bully 'me'...we gonna bully u hardcore etc..so he knows what hes doing!
    Hes coarse, common and vulgar anyway and every second word is C or F and i just cant stand the guy.

    So eventually i deleted him from all my contacts online fb, psn etc...but due to this i cant hang with the others as they still all hang out. So i have 0 freinds and 0 freinds online really as i wont join them anymore whilst he is there which is all the time.

    Anyway i know i done the right thing as i had to remove this idiot from my life just shame about the resultant circumstances.

    There's no reason you can't still see the rest of your friends. You can arrange to play stuff with them separately. If they want to invite this other friend, explain to them what he's done and why you're uncomfortable playing or seeing him. I'm sure he doesn't play 100% of the time that they do. I've been in a similar situation myself and I still manage to play with the other friends on a regular basis.

    Ultimately sometimes it's very hard to do something that you know is the right thing, but that doesn't mean it's not worth doing.
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