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    Just a bit of background - I'm an 18 year old virgin female and I do get pretty horny sometimes, so I thought maybe porn would be that one thing that triggers me to start masturbating

    But nope, it didn't. It was way too blatant. I even tried snippets of girl on girl but it didn't work.

    Maybe there's something wrong with me? Idk. I need advice

    No troll comments please, I'm being serious.
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    If porn doesn't do it for you then don't watch porn, simple.
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    Maybe you need to find the type you enjoy. When you masturbate (if you do already, it wasn't clear in your original post) what do you fantasise about?

    I personally prefer female friendly soft core stuff and missionary. Also face sitting and intimate stuff in general. You just need to find what works for you.

    That said maybe porn isn't for you. Alternatives would be simply fantasising, audios or erotic novels? Also if you have a celebrity crush maybe look up send scenes they have done it could work as an alternative to mainstream porn.

    Sorry if this post was graphic but it's life, I am just giving advice.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Maybe you need to find the type you enjoy. When you masturbate (if you do already, it wasn't clear in your original post) what do you fantasise about?

    I personally prefer female friendly soft core stuff and missionary. Also face sitting and intimate stuff in general. You just need to find what works for you.

    That said maybe porn isn't for you. Alternatives would be simply fantasising, audios or erotic novels? Also if you have a celebrity crush maybe look up send scenes they have done it could work as an alternative to mainstream porn.

    Sorry if this post was graphic but it's life, I am just giving advice.
    When referring to celebs I meant sex scenes not send scenes haha I don't know how to edit when posting anon.
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    you can try the 'women only' category.
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    Well I'm a guy and I don't get turned on by porn.

    Most porn isn't sexy.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Just a bit of background - I'm an 18 year old virgin female and I do get pretty horny sometimes, so I thought maybe porn would be that one thing that triggers me to start masturbating

    But nope, it didn't. It was way too blatant. I even tried snippets of girl on girl but it didn't work.

    Maybe there's something wrong with me? Idk. I need advice

    No troll comments please, I'm being serious.
    Are you waiting until marriage and hence the virgin still being a thing and testing with masturbation?

    Maybe you may find that porn is not your kind of thing because, like me, you are asexual but don't know it?

    I doubt there's anythinf wrong with you. You just need to find what you enjoy most. Maybe it's worth contacting guys/girls/whatever you like to find something to please you.
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    Are you waiting until marriage and hence the virgin still being a thing and testing with masturbation?

    Maybe you may find that porn is not your kind of thing because, like me, you are asexual but don't know it?

    I doubt there's anythinf wrong with you. You just need to find what you enjoy most. Maybe it's worth contacting guys/girls/whatever you like to find something to please you.
    Why would you ask is she waiting till marriage just because she is a Virgin at 18 years old? That's putting pressure on her even more plus it's not uncommon to be a Virgin at 18.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why would you ask is she waiting till marriage just because she is a Virgin at 18 years old? That's putting pressure on her even more plus it's not uncommon to be a Virgin at 18.
    I'd love to hear how this is pressurising her After all, isn't it a person's own decision to remain celibate or not, as well as having sex before the age of consent. Kudos to her for waiting. So, tell me how it's pressurising. I'd love to hear this quibble Could I also inform you, I'm 18 and virgin. So... Not really a harmful question. You're adding a negative connotation onto something you perceive to be bad, though it's entirely neutral in its argument.
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    Most porn is, in a word, awful. You have a number of bored people faking interest in each other while assuming silly positions so that the bored camera person can get a better view.

    Try reading. Well-indexed archives of all sorts of erotic stories exist.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Just a bit of background - I'm an 18 year old virgin female and I do get pretty horny sometimes, so I thought maybe porn would be that one thing that triggers me to start masturbating

    But nope, it didn't. It was way too blatant. I even tried snippets of girl on girl but it didn't work.

    Maybe there's something wrong with me? Idk. I need advice

    No troll comments please, I'm being serious.
    Lol there's nothing wrong with you. Porn doesnt do it for me either. Then again I have a boyfriend for those things 😅😅
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Maybe you need to find the type you enjoy. When you masturbate (if you do already, it wasn't clear in your original post) what do you fantasise about?

    I personally prefer female friendly soft core stuff and missionary. Also face sitting and intimate stuff in general. You just need to find what works for you.

    That said maybe porn isn't for you. Alternatives would be simply fantasising, audios or erotic novels? Also if you have a celebrity crush maybe look up send scenes they have done it could work as an alternative to mainstream porn.

    Sorry if this post was graphic but it's life, I am just giving advice.
    Thanks
    I'm thinking of looking at some erotic novels and movies, maybe that'd work

    (Original post by Tinemither)
    Are you waiting until marriage and hence the virgin still being a thing and testing with masturbation?

    Maybe you may find that porn is not your kind of thing because, like me, you are asexual but don't know it?

    I doubt there's anythinf wrong with you. You just need to find what you enjoy most. Maybe it's worth contacting guys/girls/whatever you like to find something to please you.
    Lol I'm only 18. Sorry that I didn't lose it at 12
    Never had a boyfriend or anything because of a strict family. I don't think I'm waiting for marriage.

    If I were asexual I wouldn't be sexually attracted to some guys would I?
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    (Original post by unprinted)
    Most porn is, in a word, awful. You have a number of bored people faking interest in each other while assuming silly positions so that the bored camera person can get a better view.

    Try reading. Well-indexed archives of all sorts of erotic stories exist.
    Yeah I'm going to have a root around with reading and short stories and such. Thanks for your advice
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    advice for what???!!!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lol there's nothing wrong with you. Porn doesnt do it for me either. Then again I have a boyfriend for those things 😅😅
    God...the day I get a bf :coma:

    Just need to get away from family first
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    advice for what???!!!
    To help...get it on
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lol I'm only 18. Sorry that I didn't lose it at 12
    Never had a boyfriend or anything because of a strict family. I don't think I'm waiting for marriage.

    If I were asexual I wouldn't be sexually attracted to some guys would I?
    Well, sorry for trying to be of any kind of assistance.
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    (Original post by Tinemither)
    I'd love to hear how this is pressurising her After all, isn't it a person's own decision to remain celibate or not, as well as having sex before the age of consent. Kudos to her for waiting. So, tell me how it's pressurising. I'd love to hear this quibble Could I also inform you, I'm 18 and virgin. So... Not really a harmful question. You're adding a negative connotation onto something you perceive to be bad, though it's entirely neutral in its argument.
    I don't want this to be the main point of discussion as the thread is about something else but....

    It is a persons own decision to remain celibate but OP never mentioned anything about celibacy or wanting to have had sex before 16 so I don't know why you have brought it up. You mentioning her perhaps waiting till marriage may subconsciously make her feel pressure as it would do to many people.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah I'm going to have a root around with reading and short stories and such. Thanks for your advice
    I recommend literotica as an online site with stories, it has different categories as well as audios. Means you don't have to buy the equivalent to 50 shades of grey.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I recommend literotica as an online site with stories, it has different categories as well as audios. Means you don't have to buy the equivalent to 50 shades of grey.
    Thank you, I'll have a look sometime soon
 
 
 
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