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    She sounds ****ing mental. Can you get your housemates together to deal with her? get her out? or would they not agree?
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    Too often in cases like this people are quick to judge hence people thinking she is mad or nasty, it could be bad anxiety coming out as stress because they feel left out, or they are nervous so you see it as them being strange and that makes them angry and feel even more left out.

    Simple terms she may just have a lot in her system bottled up and wants to get it out and move on but finds it hard to do so, after it she may be the nicest person in the world but it may be too late then as she will be seen as weird or nasty.

    If you just ignore her it will make things worse.
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    Dispose of her.
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    Dispose of her.
    Hey there, are you alright?

    I was expecting different response from your side.

    'send her to me' or something similar.

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    Well, I guess people change.


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    (Original post by Impressive)
    Hey there, are you alright?

    I was expecting different response from your side.

    'send her to me' or something similar.
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    Well, I guess people change.


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    Yes people do change. You seem to have acquired a sense of humour. :ahee:
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    (Original post by stefano865)
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    Yes people do change. You seem to have acquired a sense of humour. :ahee:
    Oh, you've implied the wrong meaning.

    I was just being realistic.

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    (Original post by Impressive)
    Oh, you've implied the wrong meaning.

    I was just being realistic.

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    I know.

    I have a bit of a reputation.

    But I'm also the most genuine, kind guy you could ever meet.


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    Not flirting btw.
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    lock her in
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    I know.

    I have a bit of a reputation.

    But I'm also the most genuine, kind guy you could ever meet.


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    Not flirting btw.
    Yes, I know you aren't flirting b.... and I'm sure many girls on here would be impressed with a guy like you.

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    (Original post by Impressive)
    Yes, I know you aren't flirting b.... and I'm sure many girls on here would be impressed with a guy like you.

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    If you looked at my posting history you would see a different side to me in many of my posts.

    But I joke around a lot and am not gonna change.

    I can't be liked by everyone.

    You clearly don't and I accept that.
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    If you looked at my posting history you would see a different side to me in many of my posts.

    But I joke around a lot and am not gonna change.

    I can't be liked by everyone.

    You clearly don't and I accept that.
    I am not looking at posting history because it's a complete waste of time. Also, I'm better with what's now, not what was in the past.

    If you wanted to know what I think about stefano865, you should have asked but instead you're trying different methods.

    Just so you know; never said I don't like you. I don't have my personal opinion yet.

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    (Original post by Impressive)
    I am not looking at posting history because it's a complete waste of time. Also, I'm better with what's now, not what was in the past.

    If you wanted to know what I think about stefano865, you should have asked but instead you're trying different methods.

    Just so you know; never said I don't like you. I don't have my personal opinion yet.

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    Ok what do you think?

    Be honest.

    I'm not trying any 'methods'. Just going with the flow.
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    Ok what do you think?

    Be honest.

    I'm not trying any 'methods'. Just going with the flow.
    Hey, wait a second, you got too excited.

    Read my last sentence.

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    (Original post by Impressive)
    Hey, wait a second, you got too excited.

    Read my last sentence.

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    Ok.

    But I'm guessing I've pissed you off in the past.

    I'm sorry. :jumphug:


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    We should probably leave it here before we waste anymore of our lives.
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    (Original post by Emily babezxx)
    You need to have a talk with her without raising your voice. Just stay cool and tell her how you feel about her. As long as your house mate is able to take criticism.
    Based on what has already been explained, I think its safe to say she cant take criticism.
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    You have to RKO them
 
 
 
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