I live in Student halls, there are 5 people in my flat. For a few months I have a problem with one of them, he accuses me of making mess, taking his stuff and not cleaning after myself,
He is the only one in the flat with such complaints, I get along with everyone else.
I talked it through with him several times but every time it ends up the same: I believe we have reached a compromise, I believe I stick to my end of the deal but he believes he was completely ignored.
It's been going on for months and I feel it's at the melting point now.
Yesterday he went all psycho on me when we met. I honestly think he needs medical help for his anger issues - there is something wrong with him and I can't really say I feel safe in my flat any more after yesterday, there is just NO reasoning with him
I am happy with the level of our mess in our kitchen, it is about as clean as my friends' kitchens. Nobody else is complaining about me as far as I know. I can honestly say I have been trying to avoid setting him off, but yesterday's rage proved that it's out of my realm of possibilities.
As far as I know he went to oficially complaint three times (he told me), even went as far as to ask them to contact me about my "bad habits", but since I never got any I guess the staff just thought his complaints are weird (they are).
I am unsure of what to do now, since he is completely convinced I am the devil himself plotting against him. Reason just doesn't work, every time I try he accuses me of lying. Every thing that happens in the kitchen is automatically my fault, and there is no convincing him that it wasn't me.
Because it escalated almost to the level of physical violence I feel something needs to be done. I have exhausted all options to satisfy the guy, I honestly do think he has a mental problem of some kind.
Oh, and he's coming there tomorrow to talk. I have no idea how to handle that conversation to be honest.
Need advice,
cheers