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    In this day and age, where women have ridiculously high standards for men, it's not surprising that a lot of guys get rejected. And subsequently there will be guys who come off as "desperate" because they unfortunately find themselves in the situation of having only met women/girls who demand so much more of men.

    Often the female will just milk the man out of money, to get free food, clothes, or jewelry, only to tell him afterwards that they "should remain just friends" or that "she has a boyfriend". And sadly, because these women have just callously disregarded a man's feelings, said man's self confidence will be crushed and he will be discouraged from making anymore romantic endeavors. Some of these men will even become salty, and start complaining excessively about how they are always so "nice" and that he should be entitled to girls loving him.

    These men are what we call "desperate". But are they truly in the wrong here, we like to point to these individuals and laugh at how hard they are trying, how they only see women as objects, but most of these men have been through hell already.

    This unjust game of love favours the woman over the man, and in a system run by the matriarchy, we shouldn't condemn these "desperate" guys for failing at an unfair game. They have tried and fallen many times, they are not creatures to be condemned, rather we should pity them, pity how women have deprived them of love and shown them the darkness. We all know who the real is here. So please, stop condemning desperate men, they need not our scorn, but instead need the help and support of others.

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    Bitter?
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    Lol oh no women have standards. They're nowhere near as high as you think, you're just not forward or clever enough.
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    you're looking too deep into this
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    (Original post by whorace)
    Lol oh no women have standards. They're nowhere near as high as you think, you're just not forward or clever enough.
    That hurts me man
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    (Original post by GUMI)
    In this day and age, where women have ridiculously high standards for men, it's not surprising that a lot of guys get rejected. And subsequently there will be guys who come off as "desperate" because they unfortunately find themselves in the situation of having only met women/girls who demand so much more of men.

    Often the female will just milk the man out of money, to get free food, clothes, or jewelry, only to tell him afterwards that they "should remain just friends" or that "she has a boyfriend". And sadly, because these women have just callously disregarded a man's feelings, said man's self confidence will be crushed and he will be discouraged from making anymore romantic endeavors. Some of these men will even become salty, and start complaining excessively about how they are always so "nice" and that he should be entitled to girls loving him.

    These men are what we call "desperate". But are they truly in the wrong here, we like to point to these individuals and laugh at how hard they are trying, how they only see women as objects, but most of these men have been through hell already.

    This unjust game of love favours the woman over the man, and in a system run by the matriarchy, we shouldn't condemn these "desperate" guys for failing at an unfair game. They have tried and fallen many times, they are not creatures to be condemned, rather we should pity them, pity how women have deprived them of love and shown them the darkness. We all know who the real is here. So please, stop condemning desperate men, they need not our scorn, but instead need the help and support of others.

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    (Original post by GUMI)
    In this day and age, where women have ridiculously high standards for men, it's not surprising that a lot of guys get rejected. And subsequently there will be guys who come off as "desperate" because they unfortunately find themselves in the situation of having only met women/girls who demand so much more of men.

    Often the female will just milk the man out of money, to get free food, clothes, or jewelry, only to tell him afterwards that they "should remain just friends" or that "she has a boyfriend". And sadly, because these women have just callously disregarded a man's feelings, said man's self confidence will be crushed and he will be discouraged from making anymore romantic endeavors. Some of these men will even become salty, and start complaining excessively about how they are always so "nice" and that he should be entitled to girls loving him.

    These men are what we call "desperate". But are they truly in the wrong here, we like to point to these individuals and laugh at how hard they are trying, how they only see women as objects, but most of these men have been through hell already.

    This unjust game of love favours the woman over the man, and in a system run by the matriarchy, we shouldn't condemn these "desperate" guys for failing at an unfair game. They have tried and fallen many times, they are not creatures to be condemned, rather we should pity them, pity how women have deprived them of love and shown them the darkness. We all know who the real is here. So please, stop condemning desperate men, they need not our scorn, but instead need the help and support of others.

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    (Original post by GUMI)
    That hurts me man
    The world does not care or owe you anything. Being nice does not mean they should sleep with you, and being nasty does not mean they will sleep with you. Try being sexually suggestive, genuine, interested and insightful.
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    just settle for average init
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    You sound very bitter tbh. I don't know any girls who exploit guys for their money, guys they are not even in a relationship with no less.

    Many of those "nice" guys have a problem because the only thing they have going for them is that they are "nice". They are either bland and boring or they do not show their true personalities due to shyness and fear of rejection so come across as bland and boring. Besides, if the only reason you are being "nice" is that you have an ulterior motive and feel entitled for something in return then you were not very nice to begin with.
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    You sound very bitter tbh. I don't know any girls who exploit guys for their money, guys they are not even in a relationship with no less.

    Many of those "nice" guys have a problem because the only thing they have going for them is that they are "nice". They are either bland and boring or they do not show their true personalities due to shyness and fear of rejection so come across as bland and boring. Besides, if the only reason you are being "nice" is that you have an ulterior motive and feel entitled for something in return then you were not very nice to begin with.
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    I've encountered desparate guys. It's so bloody off putting. Can't think of a single reason why I'd want to date someone when it's obvious they're after one thing. One didn't even know me and the other had a girlfriend.
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    (Original post by Tiger Rag)
    I've encountered desparate guys. It's so bloody off putting. Can't think of a single reason why I'd want to date someone when it's obvious they're after one thing. One didn't even know me and the other had a girlfriend.
    Are you generalizing that all desperate guys are after sex? LOL
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    Brah, if you're not disregarding females and acquiring currency, you're doing it wrong.
 
 
 
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