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    I'm a boy and was molested when I was young by a gay male, and I think I have a slight hint of homophobia in me because of that. What can I do? I can't seem to grow out of it
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    I'm really sorry to hear

    Is a counselling type of therapy an option available/right for you?
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    report it to the police, they will investigate. just because it happened a while ago dosent mean it cant be investigated
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    I'm a boy and was molested when I was young by a gay male, and I think I have a slight hint of homophobia in me because of that. What can I do? I can't seem to grow out of it
    I feel ya bruv. I was raped when I was nine by another male. I was homophobic until I realised I was gay.

    I would recommend surrounding yourself with the people you are slightly against to sort it
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a boy and was molested when I was young by a gay male, and I think I have a slight hint of homophobia in me because of that. What can I do? I can't seem to grow out of it
    You don't have homophobia. You have a phobia of your abuser and displaced rage caused by your abuse.

    As a survivor of abuse myself, I assure you; there IS light at the end at the end of the tunnel.

    An abuser only has power over their victim through fear, and through the silence of their victim. Speak out, and you take your power back.

    I will keep you in my prayers.
 
 
 
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