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Reply 1
Give a description of what she does and yoda shall let you know.
Reply 2
Look into my eyes always smiling. laughs alot around me and smiles. Teases me about kissing others and teases me about this girl being my lover. A few weeks ago She was mirrroring me biting my nails and leaning towards me.

She does other things i'm sure I just can't think now but the eye thing is really intense sometimes
Reply 3
Has harrison quoted this from the internet? Or is he a little slow?

She likes you. The eye thing alone should give it away. Or the laughing a lot around you. Or the teasing. Or the mirroring. Leaning implies it also. Propose to her already.
Reply 4
She couldn't make it clearer without stripping naked and writing 'Bang me, you muppet' on her body in chocolate sauce. Wake up, you're giving us guys a bad name!
Reply 5
So these are good signs? I'll see what happens tomorrow.
Reply 6
ah, to be young and in love.
Reply 7
3232
She couldn't make it clearer without stripping naked and writing 'Bang me, you muppet' on her body in chocolate sauce. Wake up, you're giving us guys a bad name!


:rofl:
Thers loads of things man, a cliche but surprisingly consistent one is them playing with their hair. Others include: asking things about you and sounding genuine, mirroring your body language, kinesthetics (touching-thats a surefire one), laughing at stuff you say, prolonged eye contact and, easily the most obvious, the initiating of 'footsy' if you're sat at a table.

If you get some or all of these signs, you'd have to do something wrong to not get 'some' or make her your g/f or whatever. There's a philosophy somewhere along the lines of, 'if a girl likes a guy, there's very little he can do to put her off him, if she doesn't, theres nothing he can do to make her like him' or something similar. This is quite true. Judge wisely and act accordingly.

I will say this though: THE VAST MAJORITY OF GIRLS WILL NOT INITIATE ANYTHING. You HAVE to lead, ie you must make the move. In dating, a girl's role is to basically make herself available and give of signs that she's interested, the man's role is to make the move, you MUST make the move. This goes for every stage of the relationship as well, you have to go for the kiss and eventually escalate to sex when you feel the time is right, cos she won't....guaranteed. Unless she's a stripper or something like that....ah we can all dream. :biggrin:
Reply 9
3232
She couldn't make it clearer without stripping naked and writing 'Bang me, you muppet' on her body in chocolate sauce. Wake up, you're giving us guys a bad name!


marry me 3232 :suith:.
TopSortedMadForIt
Thers loads of things man, a cliche but surprisingly consistent one is them playing with their hair. Others include: asking things about you and sounding genuine, mirroring your body language, kinesthetics (touching-thats a surefire one), laughing at stuff you say, prolonged eye contact and, easily the most obvious, the initiating of 'footsy' if you're sat at a table.

If you get some or all of these signs, you'd have to do something wrong to not get 'some' or make her your g/f or whatever. There's a philosophy somewhere along the lines of, 'if a girl likes a guy, there's very little he can do to put her off him, if she doesn't, theres nothing he can do to make her like him' or something similar. This is quite true. Judge wisely and act accordingly.

I will say this though: THE VAST MAJORITY OF GIRLS WILL NOT INITIATE ANYTHING. You HAVE to lead, ie you must make the move. In dating, a girl's role is to basically make herself available and give of signs that she's interested, the man's role is to make the move, you MUST make the move. This goes for every stage of the relationship as well, you have to go for the kiss and eventually escalate to sex when you feel the time is right, cos she won't....guaranteed. Unless she's a stripper or something like that....ah we can all dream. :biggrin:



Yea, and why is that? Why do we always have to make the first move?

Why do we have to risk looking like a meat-head every time?

Wemon are a real pain in the ass to interpret. You have to literally spell it out for me.
Reply 11
I hate when they're kinda nervous around you, and trying best to not look at you, maybe its my psychotic presence and dead eyes that do this but i dunno.
Reply 12
Sweet-Euphoria
Yea, and why is that? Why do we always have to make the first move?

Why do we have to risk looking like a meat-head every time?

Wemon are a real pain in the ass to interpret. You have to literally spell it out for me.


Because if girls make the first move they get labelled desperate and a slag, silly really isn't it, just complicates the situation for everybody.

oh ps obviously that is a generalization, I know there are exceptions, etc etc
Sweet-Euphoria
Yea, and why is that? Why do we always have to make the first move?

Why do we have to risk looking like a meat-head every time?

Wemon are a real pain in the ass to interpret. You have to literally spell it out for me.


Its well better this way. Imagine being an average looking girl....you can't approach guys, that makes you a slag, but not many guys (and the ones that do are average) approach you, so you end up settling for the best you can get.

A guy can go out any day of the week, and get a phone number or whatever...and an attractive guy has the most power of any person in dating, even more than a hot girl, cos again, girls can't really approach guys. An attractive guy has the world at his feet.

You just gotta get comfortable with the idea of escalating things...if you read the signs correctly, you should never get this wrong anyway
TopSortedMadForIt
Its well better this way. Imagine being an average looking girl....you can't approach guys, that makes you a slag, but not many guys (and the ones that do are average) approach you, so you end up settling for the best you can get.

A guy can go out any day of the week, and get a phone number or whatever...and an attractive guy has the most power of any person in dating, even more than a hot girl, cos again, girls can't really approach guys. An attractive guy has the world at his feet.

You just gotta get comfortable with the idea of escalating things...if you read the signs correctly, you should never get this wrong anyway


What's wrong with average looking guys?

Show me what you mean by an average looking guy. Just out of curiousity.

Post a picture of what you would call 'Average looking'.
Reply 15
If a guy really drops it like its hot :]], then i just laugh even when they arent funny and yeah.
ub3r
If a guy really drops it like its hot :]], then i just laugh even when they arent funny and yeah.


What do you mean?
Sweet-Euphoria
What's wrong with average looking guys?

Show me what you mean by an average looking guy. Just out of curiousity.

Post a picture of what you would call 'Average looking'.

Don't worry about being avaerage. For the reasons I talked about, average looking guys can get above average girls, but not really the other way round. Just look your best, most women have a minimum requirement that they need lads to look like....as long as you kno what to say, you're sorted.
TopSortedMadForIt
Don't worry about being avaerage. For the reasons I talked about, average looking guys can get above average girls, but not really the other way round. Just look your best, most women have a minimum requirement that they need lads to look like....as long as you kno what to say, you're sorted.


What makes you think I'm just average looking? :wink:
Reply 19
lol, this makes everyone sound so fickle!!

not everyone goes on looks, i know its a cliche, but i'd much rather date a girl who wasnt the best looking (by society's standards) but who could sustain a conversation and make me laugh, than some ditzy thick as poo but stunning blonde bimbo.

but maybe thats just me!

Jx