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    (Original post by Justmoll28)
    every guy is different, you will know when you do if its more than just friendliness
    Probably aha lol x

    (Original post by DatSHINee)
    me thinks you're being humble and do intact have a nice personality.
    If I'm honest, i think he does find you attractive.
    Give us another situation.
    Eyy hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... Well..........
    Ok I sit in the front row, and he sits a row behind me. My friend went out and walked in and said "he was proper looking at you"
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    (Original post by Retired_Messiah)
    Different things are hot to different people

    I think my best m8's girlfriend is wholly unattractive while he disagrees with me, he reckons my crush is totes not good lookin, and so on.

    subjective depending on the person innit, ey?
    oh trueee

    (Original post by lol-done)
    I got into trouble with this and my now ex
    being "overly friendly" with random women
    so like
    if he's popular and everywhere he goes another female is casually throwing him a hi right
    or asking him for help and he obliges
    he could just like attention idk

    women dont like men like that because they might not want to be competing with flatterers. hence now why I'm recently single again.

    if he's not that kinda guy
    and it's kinda special treatment like he's not popular, outgoing etc but still helps you, talks to you, perks up he may or may not like you
    i say may not like you because
    there are guys who like girls who wont ever say or show it when she's right there
    it just depends it's too complex
    you need to just figure out his social ways and if he flirts a lot, wrapping his arms around women's neck/shoulder/waist and walking and talking, basking in attention

    you might then have to get solid confirmation from HIM NOT US that he likes YOU more than THEM

    tough task but good luck
    Wow lol cba to think
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    I have the same problem, in highschool I thought every guy liked me, turned out I was rudely awaken and that was not the deal. So I grew out of that and assumed everyone is just being friendly and don't even know what's going on.

    One extreme to other.

    And everything everyone listed arent very obvious signs imo.
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    (Original post by Anonbabes)
    oh trueee



    Wow lol cba to think
    is it too long
    all i really am saying is the last two lines

    maybe last 4 or 5 :yy:
    you need to just get confirmation he likes you if he's popular and always is nice with everyone. don't take it for personal feelings if he does that with everyone. for your own good serious
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    (Original post by lol-done)
    is it too long
    all i really am saying is the last two lines

    maybe last 4 or 5 :yy:
    you need to just get confirmation he likes you if he's popular and always is nice with everyone. don't take it for personal feelings if he does that with everyone. for your own good serious
    Well he only stares at me
    Only asks ME if i need help
    Kinda behaves different around me
    Avoids eye contact
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    I have the same problem, in highschool I thought every guy liked me, turned out I was rudely awaken and that was not the deal. So I grew out of that and assumed everyone is just being friendly and don't even know what's going on.

    One extreme to other.

    And everything everyone listed are very obvious signs imo.
    ?? Obvious signs that?
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    (Original post by Anonbabes)
    Well he only stares at me
    Only asks ME if i need help
    Kinda behaves different around me
    Avoids eye contact
    be honest, is he socially awk?

    do other girls speak to him? does he speak to them 1st?
    I am constantly speaking to females and it may be a good look to other males but it also makes onlooking female admirers insecure. do you get that from him? or he's just..to himself kind of...
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    (Original post by Anonbabes)
    ?? Obvious signs that?
    They aren't obvious signs that someone likes you** sorry
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    I have the same problem, in highschool I thought every guy liked me, turned out I was rudely awaken and that was not the deal. So I grew out of that and assumed everyone is just being friendly and don't even know what's going on.

    One extreme to other.

    And everything everyone listed arent very obvious signs imo.
    mmmm damn yea at least you figured it out tbh that's such a ****ed up spot ngl
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    They aren't obvious signs that someone likes you** sorry
    did she ask for a list? i'm not being snarky I actually dont remember. I just want to get to know what her situation is.
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    (Original post by lol-done)
    be honest, is he socially awk?

    do other girls speak to him? does he speak to them 1st?
    I am constantly speaking to females and it may be a good look to other males but it also makes onlooking female admirers insecure. do you get that from him? or he's just..to himself kind of...
    Yes he is socially awark
    Most girls barely talk to him. Maybe a odd convro now and then
    When I talk to guys he does glance


    (Original post by xobeauty)
    They aren't obvious signs that someone likes you** sorry
    LOL yayx
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    (Original post by lol-done)
    mmmm damn yea at least you figured it out tbh that's such a ****ed up spot ngl
    Yeah life outside of highschool is totally different yikes, a whole new world
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    (Original post by lol-done)
    did she ask for a list? i'm not being snarky I actually dont remember. I just want to get to know what her situation is.
    Then ****ing read the OP again.
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    (Original post by Anonbabes)
    Yes he is socially awark
    Most girls barely talk to him. Maybe a odd convro now and then
    When I talk to guys he does glance
    ok well yea he might be trying to pluck up courage but still be cautious don't get yourself all hopeful
    if you like him enough perhaps make the move if you sense he's shy

    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Then ****ing read the OP again.
    make me
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Then ****ing read the OP again.
    do you know who I am?
    don't talk to me like that :noway:
    I'm not some newb rude gal.
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    (Original post by xobeauty)
    Yeah life outside of highschool is totally different yikes, a whole new world
    :haughty:

    wait
    did someone say
    a whole new world?
    queen-bee
    soz I had to
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    (Original post by lol-done)
    ok well yea he might be trying to pluck up courage but still be cautious don't get yourself all hopeful
    if you like him enough perhaps make the move if you sense he's shy



    make me
    I just hope he doesn't fancy me cuz i already think he does and it stops me from actually becoming mates.
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    (Original post by Anonbabes)
    I just hope he doesn't fancy me cuz i already think he does and it stops me from actually becoming mates.
    ohhh wait so you don't want him to like you?

    hmm now it's awk lol
    you wanna friendzone him? lol
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    (Original post by Anonbabes)
    What signs shows he's friendly vs crushing?

    I need to know the signs for the future lol
    The two aren't mutually exclusive - for some guys they are the same
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    (Original post by lol-done)
    do you know who I am?
    don't talk to me like that :noway:
    I'm not some newb rude gal.
    Oh it's the mango.
 
 
 
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