Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free

I just can't seem to trust my girlfriend? Watch

    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    Before I start I just want to say that I've had this problem with my last few relationships. My last relationship before this one ended due to me not trusting my ex-girlfriend and in the end she ended things due to me causing arguments because I couldn't trust her. I thought I learnt my lesson but I haven't and this week my girlfriend actually ended things until we had a long talk and she's giving me my final chance.

    I don't know why and it really does bother me but I just can't seem to trust people ever since I was cheated on in my older relationship. I know I could've trust my ex-girlfriend and I know that I can trust my current girlfriend but for some reason it's like my minds telling me not to. It's so frustrating because I don't want this to keep happening all my life. I just want to stop being paranoid and jealous and to put all my trust into my girlfriend. What do I do? Why can't I just trust people?
    Offline

    16
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by JayDaniels16)
    Before I start I just want to say that I've had this problem with my last few relationships. My last relationship before this one ended due to me not trusting my ex-girlfriend and in the end she ended things due to me causing arguments because I couldn't trust her. I thought I learnt my lesson but I haven't and this week my girlfriend actually ended things until we had a long talk and she's giving me my final chance.

    I don't know why and it really does bother me but I just can't seem to trust people ever since I was cheated on in my older relationship. I know I could've trust my ex-girlfriend and I know that I can trust my current girlfriend but for some reason it's like my minds telling me not to. It's so frustrating because I don't want this to keep happening all my life. I just want to stop being paranoid and jealous and to put all my trust into my girlfriend. What do I do? Why can't I just trust people?
    It's probably to do with not wanting to be taken for granted but you need to realise that the girl you are with I trustworthy and your previous relationship has absolutely no bearing on this one, at the same of the day, people who cheat are going to cheat whether you trust them or not but for a relationship to work you both need to respect one another enough to have confidence in your partner's fidelity
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by JayDaniels16)
    Before I start I just want to say that I've had this problem with my last few relationships. My last relationship before this one ended due to me not trusting my ex-girlfriend and in the end she ended things due to me causing arguments because I couldn't trust her. I thought I learnt my lesson but I haven't and this week my girlfriend actually ended things until we had a long talk and she's giving me my final chance.

    I don't know why and it really does bother me but I just can't seem to trust people ever since I was cheated on in my older relationship. I know I could've trust my ex-girlfriend and I know that I can trust my current girlfriend but for some reason it's like my minds telling me not to. It's so frustrating because I don't want this to keep happening all my life. I just want to stop being paranoid and jealous and to put all my trust into my girlfriend. What do I do? Why can't I just trust people?
    You're insecure
    Don't know what for
    • #1
    #1

    my current girlfriend cheated on me before and we're still together and i trust her
    but i'm also really insecure
    idk what to say tbh
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: February 26, 2016
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • Poll
    Have you ever participated in a Secret Santa?
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

    Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

    Quick reply
    Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.