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    Basically, my girlfriend of 2 years is going travelling for a month and I don't know how to resolve my fears. She doesn't drink but this is the holiday where she wants to start and I don't know how this is going to end. I have no doubts she'll cheat on me but I'm scared she'll do stupid **** as I'm not there to protect her. Her mates will egg her on and I don't know how to calm down and stop stressing about it all. Any ideas?
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    good night sweet prince, there's no stopping her now.

    she will obtain that D, no matter what
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    Now this suggests you don't actually love her.
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    Unlucky mate. Say goodbye.
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    You need to trust her. If she's going away there's nothing you can do except reassure her that you love her and trust her not to do anything stupid. I assume that when you said "I have no doubts she'll cheat on me" you meant that she won't cheat, which is the opposite of what you've written.

    Yes people do stupid things while drunk but if you trust her then you know she won't cheat on you. Nothing you can do.
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    You can;t restrict her or stop her from doing what she wants, that's not a respectful and supportive relationship, at the end of the day if she wants to cheat on you she would regardless of where she would be going so there is not point stressing over it, you need to trust her. I can understand that you might be worried about her drinking fro the first time but surely you would know if her friends are trustworthy enough to take care of her.
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    (Original post by Bealzibub)
    good night sweet prince, there's no stopping her now.

    she will obtain that D, no matter what
    Savage af LOL


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    You can only trust her.

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