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    Ok so here is the situation, there is this girl who I met over a month ago, at college. For the first two weeks I felt nothing, but on the third week I started to deny to myself about liking her, as the fourth, fifth and sixth week came around, we began getting close and now I like her, but in five weeks i'll never see her again, as the course ends. I used be hung-up on my ex and want nothing else but her, only that has changed now.

    What the hell am I going to do, I can't tell her that I like her, because it'll make things awkward between us. Help!
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    Why can't you tell her that you like her? You might as well, especially if she's leaving soon, maybe she even feels the same way
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    (Original post by Blondie987)
    Why can't you tell her that you like her? You might as well, especially if she's leaving soon, maybe she even feels the same way
    I can't it'll make things awkward.
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    (Original post by Coolisbelieveing)
    I can't it'll make things awkward.
    If the course ends in 5 weeks what does it matter, either she'll say yes and you can go out for a while or she'll say no and you can easily avoid someone for a few weeks, anyway you're assuming she's not interest when she might be
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    (Original post by Blondie987)
    If the course ends in 5 weeks what does it matter, either she'll say yes and you can go out for a while or she'll say no and you can easily avoid someone for a few weeks, anyway you're assuming she's not interest when she might be
    (Original post by Coolisbelieveing)
    I can't it'll make things awkward.
    I do agree with Blondie you would be a fool to just let her walk away and you will regret not taking a risk.
    You never said how close you are? if you aren't close to her then it could be a bit out of the blue but you could use these 5 weeks to get to know her better by inviting her out for lunch or coffee and take it from there.
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    (Original post by Coolisbelieveing)
    I can't it'll make things awkward.
    Then dont.

    But if your not going to do anything then get the frak off TSR complaining about it.

    Or alternatively shock horror, actually tell her, see how it goes and maybe try and work something out if it does transpire that you like each other
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    (Original post by silverbolt)
    Then dont.

    But if your not going to do anything then get the frak off TSR complaining about it.

    Or alternatively shock horror, actually tell her, see how it goes and maybe try and work something out if it does transpire that you like each other
    Think he has took your advice and buggered off.
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    Flirt a bit to judge interest. If she's up for it there's no problem. Good luck
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    (Original post by chikane)
    Think he has took your advice and buggered off.
    No I haven't. Look I like her, but I know its never gonna happen.
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    (Original post by Coolisbelieveing)
    No I haven't. Look I like her, but I know its never gonna happen.
    Why not? does she have a bf? does she see you only as a friend?
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    (Original post by Coolisbelieveing)
    No I haven't. Look I like her, but I know its never gonna happen.
    With all due respect, with that attitude, why should we give a feck?
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    (Original post by Coolisbelieveing)
    Ok so here is the situation, there is this girl who I met over a month ago, at college. For the first two weeks I felt nothing, but on the third week I started to deny to myself about liking her, as the fourth, fifth and sixth week came around, we began getting close and now I like her, but in five weeks i'll never see her again, as the course ends. I used be hung-up on my ex and want nothing else but her, only that has changed now.

    What the hell am I going to do, I can't tell her that I like her, because it'll make things awkward between us. Help!
    Smash and dash bro....jeez, that much should be obvious
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    (Original post by chikane)
    Why not? does she have a bf? does she see you only as a friend?
    Look there is nothing that I would like more right now, than to get closer with her, but I'm a coward.
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    (Original post by Coolisbelieveing)
    Look there is nothing that I would like more right now, than to get closer with her, but I'm a coward.
    Thats fine i hope you will be okay living with the regret i know i wouldn't.
    Can't you even talk to her and keep in touch after she leaves? like on facebook or whatsapp? or will you just wipe her out of your life?
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    (Original post by Coolisbelieveing)
    Look there is nothing that I would like more right now, than to get closer with her, but I'm a coward.
    So what do you expect us to do about it?

    Frankly if your too scared to even talk to her about things then shes better off not even getting involved. If you cant screw up the courage to even say hello, how on earth do you expect to even attempt a relationship?

    Your choice is simple. Find some stones and speak to her (and learn one way or another) or sit there and moan and whine about what "could have been"
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    (Original post by chikane)
    Thats fine i hope you will be okay living with the regret i know i wouldn't.
    Can't you even talk to her and keep in touch after she leaves? like on facebook or whatsapp? or will you just wipe her out of your life?
    Believe me when I say I don't want to just wipe her out of my life, I wish we could be friends after the course ends, but I'll seem like a stalker if I just randomly add her on a social network.
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    (Original post by silverbolt)
    So what do you expect us to do about it?

    Frankly if your too scared to even talk to her about things then shes better off not even getting involved. If you cant screw up the courage to even say hello, how on earth do you expect to even attempt a relationship?

    Your choice is simple. Find some stones and speak to her (and learn one way or another) or sit there and moan and whine about what "could have been"
    I do say hello and we have long conversations and I make her laugh. But anything beyond a friendship is impossible.
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    (Original post by Coolisbelieveing)
    I do say hello and we have long conversations and I make her laugh. But anything beyond a friendship is impossible.
    Well then you've made up your mind.

    What is your loss will be a more confident persons gain. Too bad, you could have had a really good thing with her.
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    (Original post by silverbolt)
    Well then you've made up your mind.

    What is your loss will be a more confident persons gain. Too bad, you could have had a really good thing with her.
    How the hell do you know I could of had something good with her???
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    (Original post by Coolisbelieveing)
    I do say hello and we have long conversations and I make her laugh. But anything beyond a friendship is impossible.
    Is it because underneath your clothes, every inch of you above the waist is feathered, and every inch below the waist is scaly?
 
 
 
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