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    Last Friday I met this girl at the club, and we ended up going back to the apartment, at this point I was kinda drunk but I still remember. We start having sex, and it goes on for like 10/15 minutes? Then all of a sudden my penis went flaccid and I couldn't get it back up. So I performed some oral sex on her, and after abit I had a brief 5 minute penetration. I don't remember ejaculating AT ALL during sex, and I didn't ejaculate after either. In fear that she was pregnant I found her Facebook and contacted her, she says she took plan B on Saturday morning (around 10 hours after intercourse), although I don't believer her that much, maybe I'm overreacting and being way too paranoid .. She wasn't on the pill either. She also said we met about 3 days after her period ended, and also to add, the last time I ejaculated prior to that was about 4/5 days before, so precum shouldn't have any traces of sperm in it.Am I in hot water?Thanks!
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    PS: I didn't wear a condom, and she wasn't on the pill.
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    Only if you get in a bath.

    The combination of not ejaculating and the point in her cycle when it happened means she's not pregnant as a result of this, even before her unnecessary taking the Plan B.

    The drinking probably had quite a lot to do with a) doing something you regretted later and b) losing the erection.
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    Only if you get in a bath.

    The combination of not ejaculating and the point in her cycle when it happened means she's not pregnant as a result of this, even before her unnecessary taking the Plan B.

    The drinking probably had quite a lot to do with a) doing something you regretted later and b) losing the erection.
    So chances are she's NOT pregnant? I'm freaking out so much to the point that I feel like my life is over and ****.

    I am pretty sure I did not ejaculate, but because I was drunk I can't really be 100% sure.
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    There are three good reasons for thinking that she's not.
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    There are three good reasons for thinking that she's not.
    which are?
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    See above: you probably didn't ejaculate; she's unlikely to have been fertile at that point in her cycle; she took the 'morning after pill'.
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    See above: you probably didn't ejaculate; she's unlikely to have been fertile at that point in her cycle; she took the 'morning after pill'.
    I hope you're right mate, I'm so scared. I'm a uni student, she's jobless and just at home all day apparently, pregnancy at this point would ruin my life especially because I'm only in the UK for education.
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    Remember what this feels like, so you don't take more risks than you're comfortable with again.
 
 
 
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