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    I'm an 18 year old girl and I have never experienced an orgasm in my life. I haven't had sex but I have tried masturbation - with no luck. Does this mean I'm physically incapable of experiencing them?
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    No it doesn't mean you're incapable of experiencing an orgasm. It just means maybe the technique you are using is wrong or something. I wouldn't worry about it. It can be very much trial and error until you find a way that works for you.

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    I'm an 18 year old girl and I have never experienced an orgasm in my life. I haven't had sex but I have tried masturbation - with no luck. Does this mean I'm physically incapable of experiencing them?
    There are different methods of masturbation that suit different people. I'm so surprised that your'e 18, I started masturbating since I was 7! Using fingers actually doesn't help me, try using vibrators.
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    It just means you need some practice.

    Have a read of something like Becoming Orgasmic: A sexual and personal growth programme for women by Julia R. Heiman & Joseph LoPiccolo and/or For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality by Lonnie Barbach.
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    It doesn't happen for everyone right away, it takes practice. You'll get there eventually don't worry about it
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    You need to find the clitoris... You probably won't be able to do the whole g spot orgasm.
    Also you should use porn before you even start to touch yourself and I would recommend literotica if video porn doesn't work for you.


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