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    does it matter?

    i don't think i want to anyway. never wanted to at school either. but back at school i was hot so it seemed like a choice. now i'm overweight because of medication.

    the only reason i want to is because i feel like a child sometimes. but the idea of having sex grosses me out and options are limited what with being overweight and failing at life.
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    (Original post by samharrison)
    does it matter?

    i don't think i want to anyway. never wanted to at school either. but back at school i was hot so it seemed like a choice. now i'm overweight because of medication.

    the only reason i want to is because i feel like a child sometimes. but the idea of having sex grosses me out and options are limited what with being overweight and failing at life.
    Im guessing your male, I don't think you should rush into having sex as losing your virginity is a big step in life and you should do it with someone you love. If you just wanna get it over with you could always get an escort!
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    (Original post by Shiv is Light)
    Im guessing your male, I don't think you should rush into having sex as losing your virginity is a big step in life and you should do it with someone you love. If you just wanna get it over with you could always get an escort!
    nah i'm not getting an escort haha

    i don't think i'll ever have sex. i think i'm incapable of love and i'm unlovable anyway to a degree
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    (Original post by samharrison)
    nah i'm not getting an escort haha

    i don't think i'll ever have sex. i think i'm incapable of love and i'm unlovable anyway to a degree
    Lol m8 then what do you want, noones going to have sex with you for the lols
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    (Original post by Shiv is Light)
    Lol m8 then what do you want, noones going to have sex with you for the lols
    agreed.

    my only qualm is that some might look down on me for not having sex
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    (Original post by samharrison)
    nah i'm not getting an escort haha

    i don't think i'll ever have sex. i think i'm incapable of love and i'm unlovable anyway to a degree
    lol
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    (Original post by Dinasaurus)
    lol
    yeah but my grammar mistake was a deliberate one to save time. adding an apostrophe where it shouldn't have been is just extra effort
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    (Original post by samharrison)
    nah i'm not getting an escort haha

    i don't think i'll ever have sex. i think i'm incapable of love and i'm unlovable anyway to a degree
    unless you accept yourself or change so that you can accept yourself it's gonna be hard to imagine that anybody else could love you... are you sure you're not just telling yourself you don't want to have sex because you're worried that there's no one that would want to have sex with you ?
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    (Original post by samharrison)
    yeah but my grammar mistake was a deliberate one to save time. adding an apostrophe where it shouldn't have been is just extra effort
    There's not really any effort though is there, it was a mistake not a way of saving time. You pin-pointing that mistake just further reiterates my point about how people on this site tend to be.

    Definitely showing how unlovable you are though.
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    (Original post by Alex621)
    unless you accept yourself or change so that you can accept yourself it's gonna be hard to imagine that anybody else could love you... are you sure you're not just telling yourself you don't want to have sex because you're worried that there's no one that would want to have sex with you ?
    no i'm sure
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    (Original post by Dinasaurus)
    There's not really any effort though is there, it was a mistake not a way of saving time. You pin-pointing that mistake just further reiterates my point about how people on this site tend to be.
    nah it actually suggests an ulterior motive for your belief that people on here should be less intellectually snobby i.e. the fact that you don't measure up intellectually.
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    Not with that attitude.
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    (Original post by Dinasaurus)
    There's not really any effort though is there, it was a mistake not a way of saving time. You pin-pointing that mistake just further reiterates my point about how people on this site tend to be.

    Definitely showing how unlovable you are though.
    i know man have i hit a nerve?
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    (Original post by samharrison)
    nah it actually suggests an ulterior motive for your belief that people on here should be less intellectually snobby i.e. the fact that you don't measure up intellectually.
    That may be the case but I don't have a one-track mind, I am not so unintelligent that it affects me in life. I am fine being a big fish in a small pond.

    I'd much rather be successful than intelligent, it just sickens me to see people promoting the type of stuff that they would not be parading in public.

    Ooh I am so introverted, I am so awkward, I hate going out, I'm so shy, Will girls talk to me, I'm overweight, Oh no I get bullied etc.

    Being in the majority as a normal person who never had these problems, I just wish the influence of people like me the 'general public' was higher.
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    (Original post by samharrison)
    i know man have i hit a nerve?
    The nerve was struck earlier when I saw a video of some bloody grown ass men dressing up as anthropomorphic animals and going to conventions, then seeing some of the posts on here really took me over the edge.
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    (Original post by Dinasaurus)
    That may be the case but I don't have a one-track mind, I am not so unintelligent that it affects me in life. I am fine being a big fish in a small pond.

    I'd much rather be successful than intelligent, it just sickens me to see people promoting the type of stuff that they would not be parading in public.

    Ooh I am so introverted, I am so awkward, I hate going out, I'm so shy, Will girls talk to me, I'm overweight, Oh no I get bullied etc.

    Being in the majority as a normal person who never had these problems, I just wish the influence of people like me the 'general public' was higher.
    well i can think of good reasons why they wouldn't bring those things up in public.
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    I won't either, yes it sucks and upsets me a lot but thats just life I suppose. There will always be people better than you.

    Nobody cares if you've got laid before or not though. Nobody judges you except yourself.
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    (Original post by sr90)
    I won't either, yes it sucks and upsets me a lot but thats just life I suppose. There will always be people better than you.

    Nobody cares if you've got laid before or not though. Nobody judges you except yourself.
    yeah that's how it feels sometimes when it comes to sex but rationally i don't think they are better just for doing the dirty. perhaps they are for other reasons that lead to the sex. but even if i had those other things i probably wouldn't do it, but then i'd feel confused. sexuality is confusing. could be my aspergers.
 
 
 
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