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    Ok, so I'm a girl and I'm straight, and until recently always considered myself a virgin because I've never had sex with a guy.

    The other day I was talking to a friend about sexual experiences, and I told her about a time a couple of years ago when I experimented with a female friend. For about a year or so whenever me and her had a sleep over we would sleep naked and spoon and stuff and quite often we did oral.
    The friend I was talking to said that that means I'm not a virgin, which kind of threw me because I've never thought about it like that before.

    I'm not too bothered if I am or not, but I'm just interested to know if other people think it means I'm actually virgin or not?
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    Virginity is a man-made construct, not something actually biological. It doesn't matter, it shouldn't matter and everyone who claims to differ is wrong.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ok, so I'm a girl and I'm straight, and until recently always considered myself a virgin because I've never had sex with a guy.

    The other day I was talking to a friend about sexual experiences, and I told her about a time a couple of years ago when I experimented with a female friend. For about a year or so whenever me and her had a sleep over we would sleep naked and spoon and stuff and quite often we did oral.
    The friend I was talking to said that that means I'm not a virgin, which kind of threw me because I've never thought about it like that before.

    I'm not too bothered if I am or not, but I'm just interested to know if other people think it means I'm actually virgin or not?
    OP has made me release the Cracken :sexface:
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    Best. Story. Ever.
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    Need more details pls
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    pics or it didnt happen
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    It's up to you really - virginity means different things to different people. If for you it means penetration with a penis then that's what you think.
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    You're straight and you did oral with a girl hence you don't think that counts as sex?

    If you define your virginity as only being lost when you're penetrated then yes, you are a virgin.
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    Hard to say. Are lesbians forever virgins in this case? I wouldn't say so. I suppose you're not a virgin.
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    technically you are not a virgin but if your hymen is intact you are clinically a sexual virgin
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    Virgin in terms of sexual contact? Definitely not.
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    It's up to you to decide. If you still consider yourself a virgin, then you are. Personally, I wouldn't because oral sex is still a form of sex.
 
 
 
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