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    im 18, bi, and havent had sex yet, but have done everything else with past boy/girlfriends. I want to loose it before uni (in september) cause i dont wanna have sex for the first time druk in freshers week with a stranger and potentially be unsafe...but i dont want to find a random guy on a night out just to get it over with before i leave...yet im kinda thinking i should just do that (safely of course)
    i personally dont feel like people are attracted to me in that way...i feel like im gonna be the 40 yr old virgin cat lady!!!
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    There is no rush!! You're probably beautiful
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    Woah, hold your horses, girl!
    What's the rush?? Wouldn't you rather have sex with someone you care about and enjoy the experience, then just do it to 'get it over with'?
    You won't be a 40 year old cat lady, I promise! Just go with the flow
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    (Original post by Kenneyx)
    im 18, bi, and havent had sex yet, but have done everything else with past boy/girlfriends. I want to loose it before uni (in september) cause i dont wanna have sex for the first time druk in freshers week with a stranger and potentially be unsafe...but i dont want to find a random guy on a night out just to get it over with before i leave...yet im kinda thinking i should just do that (safely of course)
    i personally dont feel like people are attracted to me in that way...i feel like im gonna be the 40 yr old virgin cat lady!!!
    I must say that's very odd logic. It's not like fresher's week is a cult where someone will hold a gun to your head and demand that you have drunken sex with a stranger... Trying to find someone to have sex with just to "get it over with" sounds pretty tragic to me. There's no need to be in a hurry. Stop obsessing about virginity and use your judgement to make choices that show a bit more self worth.
 
 
 
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