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    I'm a male and considering I lost my virginity when I was 14, is this considered a low number of sexual partners?

    I was with the girl I lost my virginity to for quite a few years, one girl was a one-night stand and the other chick was a friend.

    Approaching the end of my 2nd year at university and I'm still yet to have sex whilst here. I'm not sure why but I'm low on confidence and pretty bad when it comes to speaking to girls, I'm too shy and cant be bothered with small talk.

    Ehhhh, what should I do?
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    I don't know, do you consider it low?

    Some of the people you're going to classes with are virgins.

    Learn to talk to people, even ones who are female, as people.
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    I don't know why you are worried about having too low an amount of sexual partners. I'd much rather be with someone who didn't sleep around with anybody who consented to sex.
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    I had sex with one person until i was 25. then had sex with 6 girls in the space of a year.

    3 girls at 21 is plenty mate. 1 is plenty. 0 is fine!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a male and considering I lost my virginity when I was 14, is this considered a low number of sexual partners?

    I was with the girl I lost my virginity to for quite a few years, one girl was a one-night stand and the other chick was a friend.

    Approaching the end of my 2nd year at university and I'm still yet to have sex whilst here. I'm not sure why but I'm low on confidence and pretty bad when it comes to speaking to girls, I'm too shy and cant be bothered with small talk.

    Ehhhh, what should I do?
    A girl would be more likely to have sex with you if you were more confident and made an effort to talk to them. Trust me.

    Just being curious, which uni do you go to?
 
 
 
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