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    (Original post by Nameless Ghoul)
    Seems a bit grandiloquent for my liking.

    The problem is that you have not fleshed out why it is a mistake. It was not right for you, as an impressionable young man, but it might be right for others. The profession would not be the oldest were this not the case.
    Plowing prostitutes is usually a last resort which proves that a guy can't get with anyone.

    Plus a lot of them have no choice in doing it. Even though I didn't know about the one I went with, she was surprisingly happy and joking about with the 2 guys running the place.
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    (Original post by Longshot700)
    Plowing prostitutes is usually a last resort which proves that a guy can't get with anyone.

    Plus a lot of them have no choice in doing it. Even though I didn't know about the one I went with, she was surprisingly happy and joking about with the 2 guys running the place.
    How does that prove that shagging a hooker is never wise?
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    (Original post by Longshot700)
    Plowing prostitutes is usually a last resort which proves that a guy can't get with anyone.

    Plus a lot of them have no choice in doing it. Even though I didn't know about the one I went with, she was surprisingly happy and joking about with the 2 guys running the place.
    There are several good reasons to do so - seeking sexual variety, the chance to do new things with someone unjudgemental, wanting casual sex without risk of them getting emotionally involved, the chance to do sexual stuff with someone otherwise unavailable to you, etc.

    There are people working who see themselves as having no choice, but it's not the majority of escorts.
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    (Original post by unprinted)
    There are several good reasons to do so - seeking sexual variety, the chance to do new things with someone unjudgemental, wanting casual sex without risk of them getting emotionally involved, the chance to do sexual stuff with someone otherwise unavailable to you, etc.

    There are people working who see themselves as having no choice, but it's not the majority of escorts.
    Sigh, guess you're right, I guess I'm just worried what my future wife/ girlfriend will say if they ever find out.
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    (Original post by Longshot700)
    Holy **** man.

    I lost my v card to a hooker as well, I didn't get anything because no symptoms showed up for 2 weeks after.

    I basically did it because people in my class told me too, I was a huge sucker for peer pressure back then and a total sheep. I regret it immensely.

    Just keep going down the doctor.
    What you know you didn't get anything because no symptoms showed for 2 weeks. I hate to break it to you but a number of std can be asymptomatic for years after catching them

    Eg gonorrhea, chlamydia, HPV, HIV, herpes

    They can all be asymptomatic for significantly longer than 2 weeks after infection.
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    (Original post by garfeeled)
    What you know you didn't get anything because no symptoms showed for 2 weeks. I hate to break it to you but a number of std can be asymptomatic for years after catching them

    Eg gonorrhea, chlamydia, HPV, HIV, herpes

    They can all be asymptomatic for significantly longer than 2 weeks after infection.
    Well I got checked the first time, was clean. second time I went with a hooker, I did something I didn't think was sex but turns out you could still get infected from it.

    But the doctor said if not even a rash comes up within the 2 weeks after doing the deed then there's nothing.
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    (Original post by get schlonged m8)
    Yuck.
    poor guy! He regrets what he did, and making him feel worse won't help anyone

    warts can be transferred through skin contact alone (well, small breaks in the skin but ygm) which means even if you use protection, other stuff, you know, touch / rub

    get it treated man. Get back out there. Don't beat yourself up about it too much, just maybe don't do it again? I don't know tbh it's up to you, but moving on from this and not dwelling on your regret is key :')
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    (Original post by Longshot700)
    They stick contact numbers on the side of telephone boxes/ shop walls, yeah in the UK.

    Dunno why I'm telling you this, why do you wanna know. Not planning on going with one are you?
    Honestly it's something that i've been thinking about a lot. I've dated before but never made it past the second date without being friendzoned. I'm seeing a therapist to help me deal with feelings of shame anxiety and self confidence but it's hard going.

    I've almost given up on girls now as it's disheartening putting all that effort in and getting nowhere. I don't really flirt anymore or actively approach and i'm becoming jaded.

    I've not had the guts to pay for a hooker yet as i'm scared of possibly getting arrested and being on the sex offenders register. If things don't improve i may go see one but i dunno.

    Where did you find those cards? In which shops/telephone boxes?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Honestly it's something that i've been thinking about a lot. I've dated before but never made it past the second date without being friendzoned. I'm seeing a therapist to help me deal with feelings of shame anxiety and self confidence but it's hard going.

    I've almost given up on girls now as it's disheartening putting all that effort in and getting nowhere. I don't really flirt anymore or actively approach and i'm becoming jaded.

    I've not had the guts to pay for a hooker yet as i'm scared of possibly getting arrested and being on the sex offenders register. If things don't improve i may go see one but i dunno.

    Where did you find those cards? In which shops/telephone boxes?
    You will feel worse then you have ever felt before after you lose your virginity to a hooker.

    I remember calling my friend before saying "you know where I can buy a hooker?" he said "what? you are only gonna feel worse after doing it though."

    I didn't listen to him and after doing the deed I was upset to the point I felt like throwing up and when waking up in the morning I never wanted to leave my bed again.

    I'm not giving you more info, sh*ts getting bad for you, I know but it will get 10 times worse if you decide to do this.

    How old are you anyway?
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    (Original post by Longshot700)
    Sigh, guess you're right, I guess I'm just worried what my future wife/ girlfriend will say if they ever find out.
    Don't tell them the whole truth.

    'I lost my virginity with a quickie with someone I didn't know and didn't care about - I wish I hadn't' is all true, for example.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Honestly it's something that i've been thinking about a lot. I've dated before but never made it past the second date without being friendzoned. I'm seeing a therapist to help me deal with feelings of shame anxiety and self confidence but it's hard going.
    Worth doing though - you risk getting into an 'I'm not worthy' - not seen as desirable - 'I'm not worthy' spiral.

    I've almost given up on girls now as it's disheartening putting all that effort in and getting nowhere. I don't really flirt anymore or actively approach and i'm becoming jaded.
    It sounds like you have been reading PUA crap. Far better to treat women as people, and be interesting.

    I've not had the guts to pay for a hooker yet as i'm scared of possibly getting arrested and being on the sex offenders register. If things don't improve i may go see one but i dunno.
    The short version of the legal situation is that if you're not meeting people on the street or similar public space, then it's legal. Paying for sex is legal in England and Wales, plus Scotland. Northern Ireland are attempting to ban it, but that will never work.

    In England and Wales, there is an offence of paying for sex with someone who has been coerced, but it's not used. If you see someone working independently, any risk goes to as near zero as you can imagine.

    As you can see, paying is not for everyone - it doesn't appeal to me - but some online research will give you far more chance of having a good time.

    Where did you find those cards? In which shops/telephone boxes?
    They used to be far more widespread in phone boxes in London. The rate at which the boxes are disappearing has greatly reduced the number. Many 'for sale cards in the window' shops will have something that translates as sex for sale, but it's really not a good way to find someone for something like this.
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    (Original post by Longshot700)
    You will feel worse then you have ever felt before after you lose your virginity to a hooker.

    I remember calling my friend before saying "you know where I can buy a hooker?" he said "what? you are only gonna feel worse after doing it though."

    I didn't listen to him and after doing the deed I was upset to the point I felt like throwing up and when waking up in the morning I never wanted to leave my bed again.

    I'm not giving you more info, sh*ts getting bad for you, I know but it will get 10 times worse if you decide to do this.

    How old are you anyway?
    I'll be 25 in 3 months.
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    That's really tragic, what a memory to have.
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    What a jolly little site this is
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    (Original post by Longshot700)
    What do you mean "which website"?

    Paid 30 quid for 10 mins.

    I regret it because I should've saved it for the one i actually loved, plus it's just a really loser thing to do by going with a hooker.
    You might aswell have just masterbated for that 10 minutes, that hooker must have been a great con woman too.
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    Go to your GP for a check if you have an STD, very important to check for these symptoms before.
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    (Original post by ikhan94)
    Go to your GP for a check if you have an STD, very important to check for these symptoms before.
    You don't go to a GP for an std check you go to a gum clinic. Sexual health clinic for those who don't know. Stay safe people , stay healthy it's not worth it.
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    (Original post by 4Skin)
    Just chillax. I lost my virginity to an escort and recently banged a shemale escort and both times I was right as rain. It's no different to buying a packet of crisps. You just bought a bad packet of crisps.
    You sound so delightful.
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    (Original post by Mancini)
    You don't go to a GP for an std check you go to a gum clinic. Sexual health clinic for those who don't know. Stay safe people , stay healthy it's not worth it.
    Yes you can...they check for symptoms, then they refer you
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    (Original post by ikhan94)
    Yes you can...they check for symptoms, then they refer you
    Maybe in some GP clinics , I'm sure in London they will just tell you to jog on to the gum clinic.
 
 
 
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