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    A friend from my evening class is being really friendly towards me but it's strange because it's a bit of a hit and miss in terms of her signals. We are actually good friends and we meet up a lot for drinks at the bar or just to eat.

    But anyway, I am trying to find myself a job and she is helping me so much on my job applications and my CV. She would also throw me random compliments every now and then like how I'm really smart or funny, it's not flirty but it's still a compliment which I rarely get. Last night she invited me round for dinner and she cooked a meal for me. It was out of the blue and I didn't expect it. She would randomly phone me to ask me how I am as well.

    But the thing I don't get it is, she would talk about other guys she likes. Also I stayed round her place one night because it was getting late and the buses were not running and she made me sleep on the floor.

    Do I just take her friendliness with a pinch of salt or could she like me? In other words, is this just normal friend behaviour? What is she up to?
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    A friend from my evening class is being really friendly towards me but it's strange because it's a bit of a hit and miss in terms of her signals. We are actually good friends and we meet up a lot for drinks at the bar or just to eat.

    But anyway, I am trying to find myself a job and she is helping me so much on my job applications and my CV. She would also throw me random compliments every now and then like how I'm really smart or funny, it's not flirty but it's still a compliment which I rarely get. Last night she invited me round for dinner and she cooked a meal for me. It was out of the blue and I didn't expect it. She would randomly phone me to ask me how I am as well.

    But the thing I don't get it is, she would talk about other guys she likes. Also I stayed round her place one night because it was getting late and the buses were not running and she made me sleep on the floor.

    Do I just take her friendliness with a pinch of salt or could she like me? In other words, is this just normal friend behaviour? What is she up to?
    Dude, she likes you
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    Dude, she likes you
    Didn't mention she has tried to set me up with other girls...
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    That seems a bit weird to me. I thought she was just being friendly. But she really does seem to be giving mixed signals here.
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    I don't think she likes you that way and she sounds like a genuinely lovely person so don't screw it up, and this is coming from me, usually i'd advise ordering her out of her own bed.
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    She sounds like a genuinely friendly person but it doesn't seem as if she likes you as more than a friend.
 
 
 
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